The lads

LegacyUser

Ok,I have the misfortune of fancying my straight mates to varying degree's
Two of them intensely
How in the name of blazes do you cope with that?
Facebook or snapchat is a disaster,I block so what I don't know won't affect me but there's so many connections,it's near impossible and I won't get away with not being on there
Besides when I'm out I'm bumping into them too
It's awful
Advice please,loads please ,including your experiences,thanks

Ten of Swords

We've all been there. Everyone here can relate to the straight crush at one time or another.

It is NOT going to happen so don't torture yourself unnecessarily.




Blocking or ignoring your friends seems a bit extreme. :eek:

Banbha32

Agree with Ten of Swords dont worry about it at all we have ALL been there. I think i have fancied all my straight friends at some point and as you said some more than others. I never blocked anyone but i did fall for one pretty hard. I even helped him and his girlfriend get together at the time and i wanted him myself So i did reduce contact to wean myself off him and it worked for me and now i dont fancy him anymore at all. Mind you if he came out im sure id find it again lol but its all good now. Hot straight friends are a total bummer

floggg

Good lord wrote: »

Ok,I have the misfortune of fancying my straight mates to varying degree's
Two of them intensely
How in the name of blazes do you cope with that?
Facebook or snapchat is a disaster,I block so what I don't know won't affect me but there's so many connections,it's near impossible and I won't get away with not being on there
Besides when I'm out I'm bumping into them too
It's awful
Advice please,loads please ,including your experiences,thanks

Can I ask, are you out?

LegacyUser

Yes I'm out in college but not at home
Thanks for thoughts, it helps
I honestly can't wait to get back,I'm so damn horny after spending a few nights out down here with those lads
My hand is exhausted

LegacyUser

floggg wrote: »

Can I ask, are you out?

I answered that 2 days ago but the post wasn't approved or missed in the queue
I hope there aren't rakes of post's in other threads here that never see the light of day,this is about the third time this year in my case

To cut long story short in the hope this post makes it past the film classification board...I said thanks,Im out in college but not down the country, am extremely horny at this stage and cant wait to get back to ucd
Yeah straight hotties should be interned or converted if you ask me
Most of them are lovely though in my experience and often flirt back which is obviously frustrating /**** central in this country town

LegacyUser

floggg wrote: »

Can I ask, are you out?

I answered that 2 days ago but the post wasn't approved or missed in the queue
I hope there aren't rakes of post's in other threads here that never see the light of day,this is about the third time this year in my case,it could be the touch site

To cut long story short in the hope this post makes it past the film classification board...I said thanks,Im out in college but not down the country, am extremely horny at this stage and cant wait to get back to ucd
Yeah straight hotties should be interned or converted if you ask me
Most of them are lovely though in my experience and often flirt back which is obviously frustrating /**** central in this country town

L.Jenkins

Sorry about that GL. Would you not just sign up?

Banbha32

Good Lord wrote: »

I answered that 2 days ago but the post wasn't approved or missed in the queue
I hope there aren't rakes of post's in other threads here that never see the light of day,this is about the third time this year in my case

To cut long story short in the hope this post makes it past the film classification board...I said thanks,Im out in college but not down the country, am extremely horny at this stage and cant wait to get back to ucd
Yeah straight hotties should be interned or converted if you ask me
Most of them are lovely though in my experience and often flirt back which is obviously frustrating /**** central in this country town

Its probably to do with being an anonymous user the whole missing posts thing?? Doesnt appear to happen as a registered user. If you still want to be anonymous and have a registered account already maybe make a second account with another email adress for private stuff or something might work.