girl says she wants me but..

LegacyUser

she keeps posting picture of ruby rose saying she wants here and loves her etc..

ok so a little back story a girl who i have been friends with for years
messaged me last week say that she has been thinking of me a lot and would like to go out with me fair enough i like her always have but i never made a move because two years ago
she came out as being gay so i never thought there wouldnt be any chance.

but now she is saying that it was just a phase and that she really want to be with a man.

she is posting all the time on Facebook that she loves ruby rose and some other girls but mainly ruby rose.

this has me worried i tend to get fairly emotionally attached and if it doesn't work out i;m down for weeks

am i seeing something that shouldn't be bothering me or not?
maybe she is just bisexual which would be fine by me if she is.

we are meeting up tomorrow to hang out for the day

HalloweenJack

I'd say stay away. It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants and, tbh, it sounds like she's an attention seeker.

If you get attached easily and it has big consequences for you, I'd definitely avoid this one, it sounds like a recipe for disaster.

I'm not sure whether she's bisexual, whether her being gay was a phase, or whether her wanting to be with a man just just a phase. Either way, it seems like she wants to experiment a little with you. All fine and dandy and might be great, but, like you said, you get emotionally attached easily. This could end up ending super bad for you, possibly end the friendship if you let it get to you too much, so you just have to ask whether potentially one night could be worth that. If you don't think it is, just tell her you're not interested.

melissak

It could work out, it could blow up in your face. No relationship come with a happy ever after guarantee. Only you can know whether it is a risk you are willing to take. Good luck.