Not very good in bed?

LegacyUser

As the question suggests, I'm querying my own ability in the bedroom.

My girlfriend and I have been together almost two years and are fairly open and honest with eachother.

When it comes to sex, we have plenty of foreplay which she says she loves and that I'm the best she's ever had at getting her off manually.

However, when it comes down to intercourse, I'm so worked up from foreplay that I last less than 2 minutes if not less than a minute every time. She says its not a problem and that she could never orgasm from intercourse anyway but I'm just afraid that she's being kind or is settling for all that I can give her.

Anyone got any thoughts on this please?

Thanks.

Hemerodrome

Relax man, don't be putting pressure on yourself to "achieve" on the clock. The two of you sound like you communicate well and she's happy, so the pressure is only in your head and there's no reason for it.

Mantis Toboggan

First time is always a trial run, go back in for round 2, you'll be much more relaxed/last longer, consider round 3 also!

nikpmup

"She says its not a problem and that she could never orgasm from intercourse anyway but I'm just afraid that she's being kind or is settling for all that I can give her"

^^^This. My man is great at foreplay, and tbh after he's done his thing magnificently, I couldn't care less if he only lasts 10 seconds! Listen to what she's telling you, and listen to her body - if you are satisfying her through foreplay, she's happy.

magneticimpulse

You are together 2 years and you are feeling insecure now? Is there a reason why all of a sudden a long term relationship is making you insecure all of a sudden?

AsianIrish

If you want my advice go and do pelvic exercise known as kegel (google it). Meditation will help you bringing in mind body and spirit together. You also need to take the pressure off your head as you have no issues lasting longer, we all can do, so go for it man.

silverbolt

The number of women who dont climax through intercourse is significant. Your girlfriend is hardly alone.

If you are open and communicative then she would tell you if you werent satisfying her. Sex is about a lot more than penetration so just enjoy that your doing a good job

bilbot79

You could climax early in the foreplay yourself and then by the time it's time you might be able to go again?

Alternatively when you're down there you could deeply consider the place econometrics has in small to medium enterprises, that way you might not get so worked up

suicide_circus

Relax. Don't worry what Cosmopolitan tells you about your need to have multiple orgasms in your twice daily tantric marathons. She's cumming. You're cumming. Everyone's enjoying themselves. Good hussle.