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Flirtationship problem?!?

  • 01-11-2015 10:53pm
    #1
    Ciara_hut
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 ✭


    Okay I'm just wondering if you guys can me advice on what do? Right I've been friends with this guy for a while and we both just got out of relationships and he was texting and snapchatting me flirting constantly after we both became single... I like him and I thought he liked me too but he randomly just stopped messaging me and it turns out he got back with ex? I feel a bit used but I just want to know what I should or shouldn't do about it?


Comments

  • #2
    Nervous Wreck
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,115 ✭✭✭✭Nervous Wreck


    Move on.


  • #3
    CaraMay
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭CaraMay


    There's nothing to do. Wish him luck (in your own head - no need to contact him) and get out there and find his replacement. He's done nothing wrong


  • #4
    Ursus Horribilis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    Sorry but I'm not seeing how you were used. For starters this never got beyond texting and snapchatting. Did you even meet up or kiss? I can't see that the guy did anything wrong really. Maybe he could've sent you a courtesy text to say he was getting back with his ex but not everyone will agree. For all we know, he genuinely liked you but when his ex came back into the picture there was no competition. What good would reacting to it do? If it were me I'd not like him to know that he'd got under my skin like that.


  • #5
    pookie82
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,217 ✭✭✭pookie82


    Ciara_hut wrote: »
    I like him and I thought he liked me too but he randomly just stopped messaging me and it turns out he got back with ex? I feel a bit used but I just want to know what I should or shouldn't do about it?

    It's fairly simple, really - flirted with random girl for a bit, ex came calling, dropped random girl for girl he knows.

    Why would you do anything? He didn't do you any harm other than to flirt a little. Even if he'd slept with you while both single, and then gotten back with his ex, it'd hurt but it wouldn't be wrong, per se.

    Leave it be and move on.


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