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First meet with guy.

  • 19-10-2015 6:45pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1


    Hi all, my first post- just seeking some tips on a first meet I have tomorrow with another guy.
    Background- myself early 30s guy, attracted to older dominant (in a nice way) guys, made contact online with another guy early 50s (just my type- calm, mature and silver!).
    We have both agreed that a NSA physical and sexual attaction is important to us, and are both okay with this.
    Have arranged to meet him for a coffee tomorrow- Im getting exciting tingles thinking about it, I feel like a teenage girl going on a first date!
    I know I may be getting ahead of myself but rom what I know of him he could very well be my type.
    Anyhow I want to make the best impression to him- in the physical sense, I will be freshly bathed and intend to wear leather jacket and jeans, with plenty of body spray.
    Looking for any advice on how to appear sexy and desirable to him, just helpfull advice please.
    Many thanks.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 766 ✭✭✭Mr.Frame


    Duff30 wrote: »
    Hi all, my first post- just seeking some tips on a first meet I have tomorrow with another guy.
    Background- myself early 30s guy, attracted to older dominant (in a nice way) guys, made contact online with another guy early 50s (just my type- calm, mature and silver!).
    We have both agreed that a NSA physical and sexual attaction is important to us, and are both okay with this.
    Have arranged to meet him for a coffee tomorrow- Im getting exciting tingles thinking about it, I feel like a teenage girl going on a first date!
    I know I may be getting ahead of myself but rom what I know of him he could very well be my type.
    Anyhow I want to make the best impression to him- in the physical sense, I will be freshly bathed and intend to wear leather jacket and jeans, with plenty of body spray.
    Looking for any advice on how to appear sexy and desirable to him, just helpfull advice please.
    Many thanks.

    Just be yourself, enjoy yourself and have fun, relax.
    As for appearing "sexy" for him, again be yourself.One mans sexiness is another mans turn off


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,422 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Hey, good luck tomorrow :)

    I think Mr Frame is right, just be yourself and stay calm and you'll have a good time. If he is more dominant than you are then it's likely he will lead the conversation anyway.

    Just go with the flow and act as you would if you were out with your friends. I find that the biggest turn-offs on a first meet are someone who is a bundle of nerves and therefore awkward/uncomfortable, and someone who trying too hard (it's very obvious when this happens)

    Have fun, don't feel pressured and hopefully the spark is there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭DubArk


    Well OP how was you date?


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