Rescheduling a meet and greet

madmen2015 · 13-09-2015 12:22pm #1

Met a guy online, on the day of "meet & greet" I messaged him to confirm it was still happening, he said yes but an hour later text me to say he thought we were meeting the following day not today as he was with his kids for the day, I text back no problem, another time....my question is how long do I give him to reschedule before I cut him loose (I suspect he was playing me)

crackers and cheese · 13-09-2015 12:49pm

Let him reschedule and give him two days to be proactive enough to do that.not a good sign that he confirmed meeting then had an excuse an hour later..If not just cut him lose

madmen2015 · 13-09-2015 12:53pm

Thanks Crackers and Cheese, I'll take your advice

LegacyUser · 13-09-2015 3:13pm

I believe in second chances so give him a few days to redeem himself. If you hear nothing, I would just forget about him.

As you said you feel played. You should listen to that gut feeling. It'll save you alot of hurt in the future as those feelings are rarely wrong.

madmen2015 · 13-09-2015 6:14pm

Very true Observer, my gut tells me run! I think if it was a genuine mistake on his part he'd have rescheduled straightaway or at least within a few hours

Rescheduling a meet and greet

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