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divorce

  • 07-09-2015 4:06pm
    #1
    robinb1961
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 ✭


    Im on a smallish income and my wife is on less...We are about to separate...At the moment I pay the large mortgage and need to supplement my income to pay all the bills etc...If I move out, I will need somewhere to rent and need to live so will have no ability to fund the mortgage on the old house or pay very little in maintenance...My solution is that I stay in the house, take custody of the children and raise them finding everything myself...my wife can move out and rent...I wont ask her for maintenance...Is this a possibility?


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  • #2
    Acara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 136 ✭✭Acara


    robinb1961 wrote: »
    Im on a smallish income and my wife is on less...We are about to separate...At the moment I pay the large mortgage and need to supplement my income to pay all the bills etc...If I move out, I will need somewhere to rent and need to live so will have no ability to fund the mortgage on the old house or pay very little in maintenance...My solution is that I stay in the house, take custody of the children and raise them finding everything myself...my wife can move out and rent...I wont ask her for maintenance...Is this a possibility?

    How does your wife feel about this solution have you discussed it with her and your kids?


  • #3
    desbrook
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭desbrook


    robinb1961 wrote: »
    Im on a smallish income and my wife is on less...We are about to separate...At the moment I pay the large mortgage and need to supplement my income to pay all the bills etc...If I move out, I will need somewhere to rent and need to live so will have no ability to fund the mortgage on the old house or pay very little in maintenance...My solution is that I stay in the house, take custody of the children and raise them finding everything myself...my wife can move out and rent...I wont ask her for maintenance...Is this a possibility?

    Your solution makes little financial sense. Why couldn't you "find everything " yourself when living away and pay it in maintenance ?


  • #4
    robinb1961
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 ✭robinb1961


    Communication broken down with wife and kids too young


  • #5
    robinb1961
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 ✭robinb1961


    wont earn enough to live somewhere else and try and run 2 houses


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