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what would you do

  • 06-09-2015 2:03pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all would you attend a wedding where your partners ex husband is possibly going to be in attending? he has been nasty and confronted me before and are still legally married.


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  • #2
    bee06
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    Probably depends on who's getting married and the relationship to them?


  • #3
    Matteroffact
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 457 ✭✭Matteroffact


    I wouldn't want to go if I wasn't close to anyone going. If this man confronted you before for no reason then I would not be in favour of going. What does your partner say ? Can you not just go and keep well away from him ?


  • #4
    PandaPoo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,977 ✭✭✭PandaPoo


    If you're partner is going, then you should go. She probably doesn't want to be around him without your support if they aren't on good terms and alcohol is involved.

    If the couple getting married aren't relatives or good friends, then I'd say neither of you should go if it will be drama or a stress to you. It's someone's wedding day so I'm sure he'll be on his best behaviour, but with drink involved you can't be sure.


  • #5
    josephryan1989
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 669 ✭✭✭josephryan1989


    Go to the wedding and enjoy the day but if he confronts you both about your relationship ask him to come and meet you both privately so as not to create an unpleasant scene and make it clear that you are both together and tell him to move on and build a bridge over it. If he gets angry and throws a wobbler for the sake of the wedding party and guests just politely leave.


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