Hate being ugly

LegacyUser

what is the point in living if yo are not handsome? I havent slept in two days, i jst listen to EDM music and imagine if I was a handsome slayer lie zac zac efron!!

How do yo cope being ugly? females don't like ugly guys!

denhaagenite

I would suspect it's probably your self esteem more than your appearance is the issue here OP. Get into a proper sleep pattern, start eating and exercising properly and it will work wonders. Anyway, appearances can only get you so far in life, a well rounded personality is much more sustainable.

LegacyUser

denhaagenite wrote: »

I would suspect it's probably your self esteem more than your appearance is the issue here OP. Get into a proper sleep pattern, start eating and exercising properly and it will work wonders. Anyway, appearances can only get you so far in life, a well rounded personality is much more sustainable.

thanks
yes my esteem de to poor appearance. diet and exercise is good bt sadly the gym doesnt do anything fo my face. I'm saving for surgery right now!

lima

sodamnglyugly wrote: »

what is the point in living if yo are not handsome? I havent slept in two days, i jst listen to EDM music and imagine if I was a handsome slayer lie zac zac efron!!

How do yo cope being ugly? females don't like ugly guys!

Try not calling it EDM and not getting too into the idealist view of the all-american capatalist pseudo-reality that doesn't exists for 99.999% of the earth!

You're Irish (I presume) so call it Dance Music, go to some techno gigs in Dublin, make friends, get into a scene, they will like you for who you are not what you look like.. then you'll get laid..

LegacyUser

What I call dance music is not important, my face is the problem. I HATE BEING UGLY! I want gils to find me hot and sexy.

kylith

There are people with actual deformities who find partners, get married, and have children. Your face is unlikely to be the problem; get out there and meet as many people as you can. One of them is bound to like you enough for a relationship.

lima

stillnotslept wrote: »

What I call dance music is not important, my face is the problem. I HATE BEING UGLY! I want gils to find me hot and sexy.

Well there's nothing that can be done about your looks, so live with it, and with your fascination with zac efron all that's wrong with dance music.

Keane2baMused

OP one thing is for sure is attractiveness comes in many forms, and when someone considers themselves as "hot and sexy"..chances are the opposite sex will think they're a complete tool.

It is an old cliché but learn to be happy with yourself the way you are. Surgery rarely actually makes people fully happy, there's always a chase for better.

Old Jakey

Just be yourself

Exclamation Marc

Most of my female friends will tell you that the first thing that will ever have them after a guy is their personality and sense of humour. Nobody wants to end up with someone who's amazing looking but an absolute bell-end.

"If you can make a girl laugh out loud, you're in there...It's almost like the pressure of the laugh makes her panties fall off."
Will Smith.

LegacyUser

Op, obviously I cannot judge without seeing your face, but if you really feel that cosmetic surgery can help your self-esteem, then go for it. It is your body and face at the end of the day, so you should be able to modify the way you want.

I am saying this as someone who is also considering getting a eye lift at 22. I have very hooded, "dead" eyes from years of lack of sleep, depression and I sometime feel people judge me differently because of them. My face doesn't use a lot of facial expression so the eyes are completely expressionless. I have seen in photos where I am smiling but the eyes look sad. They also make me look quite dumb looking and angry at times too. I even had people call me a bitch because I would joke about something but my face didn't show it, so they thought I was being mean! I would just not be approachable at all.

So it is not even a vanity thing for me, it's more of a social thing too.
I mean what were you planning on getting done? Cosmetic surgery could be a good thing in making people look more awake with eye lifts or breathe easier with nose jobs, or have everything in proportion with hair transplants or hairline lowering. Just need to make sure you don't go overboard where you actually look plastic or look even worse than before with botched surgeries.

If you do decided to go for surgery, please do your research on the best surgeries in Ireland, or even go for non-surgical operation first, because if the finished result did look bad, they can reverse it in some cases.

TL;DR: Your body, your choice to modify it. Going through similar situation with my "dead" eyes. Do your research throughly on the best surgeons for the job.

Wabbit Ears

I'm not religious but this old prayer thing is universally correct,

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.


So fcuking what if you're ugly. I'm ugly. Most of the human race is pretty ugly. Really beautiful people are the exception, not the norm.