Sex Issue

LegacyUser

Hi all
Sorry mods if this is the wrong place for this. Basically myself and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for 2 years, the sex is grand, not the best I've ever had but improving. Two things I find unusual though, the first being that his foreskin doesn't retract, at all, if it does even a tiny bit he is in pain, he has always been like this and doesn't realise it shouldn't be that way, I am possibly the first girl he's slept with, he's cagey on the details. The second thing I'm struggling with is that he also wants his nipples stimulated when we have sex, it turns him on hugely, as he's carrying a bit of extra weight he has what people call moobs, which don't bother me except during sex when he wants them stimulated I feel almost like being with a girl. Are these normal things to happen?

ManOfMystery

The nipple thing is just a personal like of his. There isn't really any 'normal' when it comes to sexual favourites; some people like plain old vanilla sex, others want extreme domination and PVC and all that. If he has sensitive nipples and finds it enjoyable then there's nothing wrong with that. Men and Women both have nipples so it's not a sensation that only women can enjoy. Your perception of it being like a woman is more to do with his moobs than the act itself IMO, it's a visual/tactile thing.

The foreskin issue is a medical one though, and he should speak to his GP about it. Lots of men suffer from a tight foreskin (known as Phimosis) though most find that with regular masturbation or retraction it eventually stretches and eventually there is no pain when it's fully retracted. He could try retracting it a little day by day to let it adjust slowly, perhaps doing so with a moisturising cream so that skin doesn't crack or get inflamed due to it being unused to that amount of stretching.

kylith

Men's nipples are just as sensitive as women's so it's not unusual that he likes them stimulated. If it's his moobs that are causing the problem that's something you'll have to approach tactfully.

As for the foreskin issue while it's not exactly common it's not that unusual either. He can stretch the skin on his foreskin and the hole in it will grow. Other options would be to talk to his GP about having a slit cut in it, and a full circumcision would be something that I would personally see as a last resort. Stretching would probably take the longest to achieve the desired result but has the benefit of being completely free and with a practically zero chance of infection, unlike the surgical options.

I'd be worried about his personal hygiene if he is unable to retract his foreskin. If it's as bad as he claims, how would he ensure it's cleaned properly? Tell him to consult with a GP.

Lone Stone

He needs the snip

Merkin

Lone Stone wrote: »

He needs the snip

Please don't give medical advice, it's not permitted as per the charter