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Decemberist0

I began seeing this girl in May we hung out with eachother and she came over to my town which is over an hour away. After that we did not meet up since due to a number of excuses she had. I had believed them but after last night I am not sure.
She and her friends were sending messages over snapchat calling me a b*ll*x and repeating that she didn't like and she had a boyfriend. It was very random and annoying. I knew she was drunk so I asked her about it today and bluntly asked was she leading me on.
Before you think that I'm constantly texting her and I always start the conversation that is not the case she has done so as well even though 6 or 7 times out of 10 it is me. What should I do? Thanks

Decemberist0

Decemberist0 wrote: »

I began seeing this girl in May we hung out with eachother and she came over to my town which is over an hour away. After that we did not meet up since due to a number of excuses she had. I had believed them but after last night I am not sure.
She and her friends were sending messages over snapchat calling me a b*ll*x and repeating that she didn't like and she had a boyfriend. It was very random and annoying. I knew she was drunk so I asked her about it today and bluntly asked was she leading me on.
Before you think that I'm constantly texting her and I always start the conversation that is not the case she has done so as well even though 6 or 7 times out of 10 it is me. What should I do? Thanks

By the way our date in June went very well, she said so.

ManOfMystery

She sounds immature and it doesn't sound like it's going anywhere. My advice would be to delete her number and move on.

laserlad2010

You saw messages where you were called a b*ll*x, that she didn't like you and that she had a boyfriend but you are still texting her??

Man, imagine that was a friend of yours, and you heard that story. You'd be furious and rightly so.

Don't answer her messages, don't answer her phone calls, delete her number. She's a waste of space.

Better yet, block her. Go for a pint with your mates, tell them the story, and sit back and bask in the collective hatred they have for her on your behalf.

Just, Please, please, PLEASE do not commit the cardinal sin most people do. DO NOT CONTACT HER OR RESPOND IN ANY WAY. IMO she doesn't even deserve an explanation.

Decemberist0

Thanks for the help guys. The cats got her tongue anyway she's a coward

LegacyUser

You should've cut contact when you found out she was calling you a B****x on Snapchat. What an obnoxious thing to be saying. It goes to show how little respect she had for you. Someone who'd do something like that is not a nice person and you are well rid.

If something like that had happened to me I would have walked. Why didn't you? There is nothing wrong with having some self-respect and setting standards for what you want in a girlfriend. You set yours very low and this is what you got in return.

Exclamation Marc

Good god she sounds like a nightmare, and to add to it her mates sounds like absolute pains in the backsides.

Run a mile, and when you've ran that mile, run another.

This sounds like a godsend that you've seen all this at this early stage.

Decemberist0

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You should've cut contact when you found out she was calling you a B****x on Snapchat. What an obnoxious thing to be saying. It goes to show how little respect she had for you. Someone who'd do something like that is not a nice person and you are well rid.

If something like that had happened to me I would have walked. Why didn't you? There is nothing wrong with having some self-respect and setting standards for what you want in a girlfriend. You set yours very low and this is what you got in return.

It was totally out character by her. That's why I kept talking to her and looked for an explanation.

Decemberist0

Decemberist0 wrote: »

It was totally out character by her. That's why I kept talking to her and looked for an explanation.

So 1) you're either unbelievably bad at judging a person's character or 2) she acts one way around you, but another way around her friends.

Either way, cut contact.

Does she have a boyfriend?

Decemberist0

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So 1) you're either unbelievably bad at judging a person's character or 2) she acts one way around you, but another way around her friends.

Either way, cut contact.

Does she have a boyfriend?

It could be the second one. I don't know if she does or just wants to get rid of me. If she did she pulled it out of her arse

To me, from what you said, she's the kind of person that would lead to headaches, heartache, and a lot of annoyance, so you're much better off without her.

Banaba

She sounds really childish OP she could have a boyfriend who knows either way would you really want to be with someone who disrespects you in front of her friends like that? Drunk or not she does not express qualities of a loving girlfriend