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Should I ask or am I overthinking?

  • 12-08-2015 1:04pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So,

    I don't know why I'm posting this maybe just to get it off my chest. Recently my boyfriend was having a drunken conversation with some woman. I noticed at one point he was saying "I've never experienced..." and started shaking and it had to do with that great feeling you get from sex. He kept saying it over and over to her and eventually she said maybe you should tell your girlfriend.

    The thing is I can't help but wonder was he referring to a time that they had maybe done it or not. Anyone any thoughts on this? Am I just overthinking things or do you think there maybe something more to it.


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  • #2
    Dixie Chick
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,062 ✭✭✭Dixie Chick


    I dont really understand your post.

    Are you saying that your boyfriend was talking to a woman and said "Ive never experienced and orgasm" and you overheard him say this?


  • #3
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    My assumption is that he says he's never experienced a full body orgasm?


  • #4
    MagicMarker
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    You're not the only one who is utterly confused OP.


  • #5
    Idle Passerby
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,130 ✭✭✭Idle Passerby


    My first assumption wouldn't be that he has had a previous sexual relationship with this woman, it would be disgust that your boyfriend was having such a sexual conversation with another woman right in front of you, and one in which he's not very flattering about your sex life together, at that.

    Unless I'm taking it up wrong, your boyfriend is essentially complaining about your inadequate sex life to third parties within your ear shot? That's massively disrespectful.


  • #6
    orthsquel
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 563 ✭✭✭orthsquel


    utterlyconfused wrote: »
    my boyfriend was having a drunken conversation with some woman. I noticed at one point he was saying "I've never experienced..." and started shaking and it had to do with that great feeling you get from sex. He kept saying it over and over to her and eventually she said maybe you should tell your girlfriend.

    Were they actually engaged in a conversation, with you included?

    Maybe it's my reading of it, but it sounds like he was trying to demonstrate in a very sleazy way a come-on to the poor woman... if he was repeatedly saying the same thing and demonstrating a shake to be an orgasm to a total stranger well it reads that way to me.


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