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no satisfaction

LegacyUser · 2015-08-04 14:48:09

Have been in a ltr for 20 years plus now.Varying ages in kids.I just dont feel like i have a satisfying sex life.I just feel there is no intimacy and no interaction from partner unless he wants sex. I have said it to him loads of times,it gets good for a while but then it goes downhill again.There is plenty of sex but…

04-08-2015 2:48pm

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Have been in a ltr for 20 years plus now.Varying ages in kids.I just dont feel like i have a satisfying sex life.I just feel there is no intimacy and no interaction from partner unless he wants sex.

I have said it to him loads of times,it gets good for a while but then it goes downhill again.There is plenty of sex but mainly quickies and i dont feel my needs are taken in to consideration.Im even thinking of finishing it with him because of it.

I just need some advice whether that is going to far or would i be better off on my own.

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#2 04-08-2015 8:20pm

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Have you tried telling him exactly what you want in that regard? It can be easy to get lazy in the bedroom department in at LTR if you're allowed. It would seem silly to call the relationship quits if this is the only issue. Have you considered couples counselling?

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