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Overcoming self hatred?

  • 04-08-2015 01:59PM
    #1
    TwoGallants
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 159 ✭✭


    Hi there,

    Was just looking for some advice. I keep getting around the 15,000 word mark and then make the mistake of reading my book... I just get so full of self loathing. Not that there is anything bad particularly but I just start to loathe myself for simply trying to write something... Does anyone have any advice to get over this or is this merely the burden of a writer??


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  • #2
    Das Kitty
    Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 17,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭Das Kitty


    Everyone goes through this to varying degrees.

    Pretty much everyone feels like giving up between 15 and 25k words. You just have to keep going, tell yourself that it doesn't matter if it's crap. Just finishing is a great achievement.

    I was listening to an interview with Donal Ryan, who wrote The Spinning Heart recently. (738am podcast). He was saying pretty much the same thing you are. He destroyed whole novels, he hated his own writing so much. What changed things for him was getting outside feedback and reassurance from someone whose opinion he trusted.

    Would that be an option for you?

    Chances are, you're not nearly as bad as you imagine. But you'll realise some day that you'll never be finished developing and improving as a writer. You need to accept where you are now and continue writing without judgement.


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