I need advice on something...?

misscpmfan

Last week I decided to stay off the booze and today my boyfriend in dunnes said he was getting some drink. Now I want booze. I really really do but I'm also focused on my weight. I bought them and now I feel crap..... But my boyfriend wants to drink and I don't want to deprive him.
I feel really flustered because he isn't giving advice or saying anything. He's the type that just leaves the decision making up to you and if I was to get annoyed over this later he would say we'll you didn't have to get them it was your decision. That's right but it's also very very ****ing annoying!
I dunno if I should have got them I'm really ocd about this stuff and get very flustered over it

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bee06

Why would you deprive him if you didn't drink? Can you not stay sober with him drinking?

I checked out your past posts on various other forums and your thread over at AH, which was closed, and whoops gave you pretty decent advice - you need to consider getting proper help. I believe you mentioned in a different thread on another forum (is it against the rules to mention these?) that you tend to be a psycho when you drink and you are worried! OP - is this all the case? If so, you really shouldn't drink whatsoever. That's what you need to base your decision on -

How does it affect your overall wellbeing?
How does it affect your life?
How does it affect your body?

If the answer to any or all of these is in the negative, then that's your answer.

Does your boyfriend push you into drinking? Make you feel that you do? It might be worth asking him if he could cut down on alcohol in support of you.

Dave0301

misscpmfan wrote: »

Last week I decided to stay off the booze and today my boyfriend in dunnes said he was getting some drink. Now I want booze. I really really do but I'm also focused on my weight. I bought them and now I feel crap..... But my boyfriend wants to drink and I don't want to deprive him.
I feel really flustered because he isn't giving advice or saying anything. He's the type that just leaves the decision making up to you and if I was to get annoyed over this later he would say we'll you didn't have to get them it was your decision. That's right but it's also very very ****ing annoying!
I dunno if I should have got them I'm really ocd about this stuff and get very flustered over it

How about he has a few drinks and you don't?

If you are so focused on staying off drink, then don't drink. If you think that your boyfriend shouldn't drink because you aren't, well that is a different story.

irishgirl19

Op I have read your post in long term illness. This is really your first big challenge since deciding to lay off it.
I think you will feel much worse about it tomorrow if you drink. Kopperberg,erdinger and cobra do decent non alcoholic drinks if your into that