first meet done what next?

leftfinger

i have been texting a girl for awhile now and we finally met up on Saturday
and it seem to have went ok we are still texting anyway and seem to be getting on great

but where do i go from here?

i'm very nervous about the whole thing since i haven't had a girlfriend in quite some time
i don't even know what to do next as my last girlfriend used to be the one guiding things

thanks in advance

ElleEm

leftfinger wrote: »

Where do i go from here?

Where do you want it to go? If you want to see her again, tell her that and ask her out. Once you spend more time together your nerves should ease.

leftfinger

ElleEm wrote: »

Where do you want it to go? If you want to see her again, tell her that and ask her out. Once you spend more time together your nerves should ease.

i would like it to continue and getting better as i do really like her.

i was think about asking her did she want to go see a movie or something some night.
but i'm worried about "the kiss" i'm terrible at making "the move" and it poped into my head that the cinema she may expect it.

Merkin

You're really overthinking it and in doing so you will feel overwhelmed. Instead of thinking about snogging or anything like that, phone her and tell her you'd a lovely time and would like to see her again. Ask her if there is anything specific she would like to do. And don't leave a very long time between dates as one can lose momentum then. Sounds like you both had a lovely time so you should go for it. Good luck.

FizzleSticks

This post has been deleted.

PizzamanIRL

Don't make an imaginary guide book in your head. "I must do this now, and then that"

Just meet her again and go with the flow. Enjoy her company and relax.

Rubberchikken

i'll say don't overthink things, relax and try to have some fun. you like this girl. she seems to like you. so ask her out. cinema can be great.

no matter what anyone advises, you'll spend time thinking about the end of the date. that's human nature. take things one step at a time and see how it goes. good luck

leftfinger

thank you so much for the replies.
i asked to did she want to go to the cinema and she said yes
(i'm so nervous about it now but also really excited about it)

she has been the best thing to happen to me in a long long time so i dont want to mess this up.

Muckracker

Make sure you get a least a kiss on your next date to keep the interest alive. Bring her to a pub after the cinema and take it from there.