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Online Dating

  • 08-06-2015 10:08pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1


    Looking for some advice with online dating. What's the expectation....

    Is it ok for girls to contact guys or is that a big no no?

    Don't seem to be having any luck...on one website a month and no success never mind a meet up. Would appreciate bit of advice.


Comments

  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Why in the name of eff would it be a no-no for girls to contact guys? I much prefer it sometimes. Do it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,420 ✭✭✭✭athtrasna


    There's an online dating forum here, it's private so you have to apply for access. Links in the Ladies Lounge and the Gentlemens Club forums.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,987 ✭✭✭Tilly


    athtrasna wrote: »
    There's an online dating forum here, it's private so you have to apply for access. Links in the Ladies Lounge and the Gentlemens Club forums.

    You need to have over 50 posts i think.

    OP, there are no rules. Girls mail guys and guys mail girls. If you see someone's profile you like then drop them a mail. Dont just mail them "hi". Say something about their profile or interests. Say something to get the conversation going.

    Best of luck with it :)


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,311 ✭✭✭Chemical Byrne


    And don't come on too strong either. I met my gf through POF and one time I got this message from some girl bluntly saying that she wanted children and was looking for the right man! WTF! Run a mile type stuff! It seemed a generic scatter gun type thing she was sending to fellas.
    I responded but with the intent of giving her some constructive criticism on her messaging strategy.


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