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Dont know why im so sad over this

  • 20-05-2015 1:36am
    #1
    spongebob89
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 565 ✭✭✭


    an hour ago I came across news that a girl I knew and liked from college 4 years ago an had recently chat to ina nightclub a few months ago had died. I was gob smacked to hear the poor girl died at (24) suddenly and unexpectedly in February..

    Kimda feel bad about only finding out now. I can't sleep thinking about her. Its been 4 years bar a few months ago when we spoke an yet I feel like I knew her alot more.

    Anyway just thought id write it out an hope to get it off my chest.


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  • #2
    kerry4sam
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,127 ✭✭✭✭kerry4sam


    spongebob89 wrote: »
    an hour ago I came across news that a girl I knew and liked from college 4 years ago an had recently chat to ina nightclub a few months ago had died. I was gob smacked to hear the poor girl died at (24) suddenly and unexpectedly in February..

    Kimda feel bad about only finding out now. I can't sleep thinking about her. Its been 4 years bar a few months ago when we spoke an yet I feel like I knew her alot more.

    Anyway just thought id write it out an hope to get it off my chest.

    No-body knows what the next hour will bring ; you were not to know when you met her in the nightclub, that THAT would be the last time you two would meet.

    Maybe you just need time to process everything, was there un-finished business between you both that you need to lay to rest?
    Perhaps if you could visit her grave with some flowers. Stay a lickle while and think through memories, it could help :)

    Hope you'll be okay,
    kerry4sam


  • #3
    AvonEnniskerry
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 354 ✭✭AvonEnniskerry


    I think in this situation your own body and mind are in shock about your own mortality. She was young at only 24 and it was an unexpected death. Your reaction is reasonable.


  • #4
    Redser87
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 610 ✭✭✭Redser87


    I think this would throw anybody to be honest. Somebody dying young forces us to think about life and death in a way that we are not used to.
    Just allow yourself the time and space to feel whatever you are feeling. You don't need to feel guilty about this. Maybe you feel that you missed an opportunity to get to know her better? Writing down what you feel could help.


  • #5
    spongebob89
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 565 ✭✭✭spongebob89


    Thank you all for your replies


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