Boyfriends leather fetish?

bigpink

Anyone ever deal with a fetish?
He said he liked it but thought he meant a small bit but saw he was looking at sites and forums.also at buying sites but I guess that would be for me cause the sizes would be mine
Should I worry?

Maurice Greene.

Not unless you are allergic to leather.
But seriously what would cause you to worry?

athtrasna

What is there to worry about? As fetishes go it is very tame, do you have something against the thought of trying on something your partner has bought for you?

Leather appeals to many senses, sight, touch, smell, even sound. It's totally normal to be excited by it IMO

Emme

Get yourself a pair of leather trousers/leggings and wear them on your next date

TizTaly2015

In a word - nope. Don't worry. Fetishes can be fun for both partners if both are willing to give it go. Try it OP, as someone has mentioned, its tame.

silverfeather

bigpink wrote: »

Anyone ever deal with a fetish?
He said he liked it but thought he meant a small bit but saw he was looking at sites and forums.also at buying sites but I guess that would be for me cause the sizes would be mine
Should I worry?

I have this a little bit myself expect I would prefer have to have faux leather though.
Why would you worry about that?

The only thing is I would prefer if possible wear faux leather personally which can be pretty good.
I like the feel and the sound. I never thought it would be something a guy would be off put by. The feel and the sound of it when you are writhing around is sort of relaxing and turn on at the same time.

I am not saying you have to feel the same as he does or anything each to their own.

MouseTail

Its only an issue if you are not comfortable with it, or it becomes a case of him needing the stimulation to get aroused. I wouldn't see it as any odder than liking stockings or silk really. Its fairly mainstream.

blatantrereg

Did he say he was "into leather" by any chance? Because that's a euphemism for being into BDSM (Bondage/discipline/sadomasochism).

One way or another the main thing is that it's up to you whether you are okay with it or not, or to what extent you are.

silverfeather

blatantrereg wrote: »

Did he say he was "into leather" by any chance? Because that's a euphemism for being into BDSM (Bondage/discipline/sadomasochism).

One way or another the main thing is that it's up to you whether you are okay with it or not, or to what extent you are.

BDSM is quite broad. Ask him how he self labels and what acts he is into etc.See if you are compatible.

iusedtoknow

fetishes are a bit mad, in a good way. They are usually a mark of healthy sexuality, unless it goes "too far" and the person can't get aroused without "x" fetish.

However...they can be one sided - there is usually a party that gets more out of it than another - not that there is anything wrong with it - everyone has their kinks or things they like - TBH being willing to explore these things (within comfort level of course) is part of a healthy sex life (being willing to please your partner..within reason)

Surprise him with a pair of leather pants/leggings. You'll make his dream come true and could look fantastic on you. Win-win.

bigpink

Prob over worrying!