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I'm the jealous friend

  • 16-04-2015 5:17am
    #1
    ramonarosie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 98 ✭✭


    So I started college in September and I've made a whole lot of new friends and I'd be particularly close to one girl but lately I feel like we've drifted apart a bit and I get really jealous whenever shes with or even talks to other friends. I've never actually said anything because I know its so stupid but I don't know how to stop these feelings. I know I'm being really controlling and irrational but I really don't know what I can do to stop feeling so jealous and insecure all the time. Any suggestions?


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  • #2
    TheBeardedLady
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,086 ✭✭✭TheBeardedLady


    Hi OP. I haven't been jealous of friends but I've been jealous a few times with partners and I understand the feeling of irrationality though the feeling to you is very real. What helped me was getting to the root of why I felt jealous. Mine stemmed from not feeling all that great about where I was in my life and comparing myself to others, so once I got on top of that, it was sorted.

    Why do YOU think you feel that way?


  • #3
    Chrome342
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 52 ✭✭Chrome342


    Be contented with what she can offer you.


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