Partner is not replying to text-phone call??

hondacbr9oorr

Need some advice,me and my girlfriend had fight over xmas,i moved home to parents house,we have child together.Things have been going really well since she comes up to visit and i go back home some days to stay with her and be with our baby,her family hate me so thats why we keep our relationship away from them,she called Friday but said she had to leave as she was going looking at new laptop with her dad,she said she would buzz me later,problem is i havent heard from here sincce,this is not like her,i didnt bother her friday put it down to her been shopping etc.I rang Saturday her phone rang out,so i sent a simple text asking if she was ok no reply,i didnt want bombard her with texts and missed calls but im geating worried somethings wrong as nothing agin today,i havnt tried ringing cause surley she has seen my text and 2 calls,i dont no what to do as she has no friends in this county and spends a lot time with her sister s r family,this is very unusual behaviour as weekends is when we spent most or time together i dont no what to do im even thinking she went out and has met someone else,i suffer from gad and am thinking all kinds,any advice would be great,

Matteroffact

If she doesn't reply soon I would go and visit her house and ask her straight out why she is putting you through this.

hondacbr9oorr

i dont want to do that either,i just have this bad feeling,what i dont no my gut telling me somethings up,i dont understand why even a simple text r phonecall would do,i no she mentioned that her cosin might be calling to her saturday,i never liked her cuosin she is bad news but i wouldnt stop her hanging out with her,i even offered to mind our son if she wants to go out,this waiting for call r text is killing me.thanks for reply i just hope im worrying over nothing

catonthewire

Send her another short text, just a hello hope all is well text....

Perhaps she is taking sometime out , from your first post it appears her family are meddling in your relationship....
She may even have misplaced her phone, either way I agree with the previous poster, if you don't hear from her call to the house...
You have a child together, and have every right to know what is going on...

zeffabelli

Maybe she lost her phone.

hondacbr9oorr

thanks for the replys,she rang yesterday about 5 o clock,i asked what was going on she said she didnt answer anyones,i said i text you worried thaught something was wrong she didnt seem to bothered and replied i just wasnt in the humor,i can understand if she wanted sometime out which we all do at times,but her attitude i personally think is rotten.She could of sent a text which takes ten seconds to say to me ill see you in few days anything instead of ignoring me.Iv learned a lesson im not going bother chasing her anymore i think she no i would do anything our child and her,but is taking advantage of my sittuation.She asks me down to the house when it suits her and she no,s this i dont think its fair its like when she is lonely she wants me,and yes her family are definitely getting involved.they think i havnt seen our son since xmas she wont tell them that im involved in our sons life because she afriad to upset them,i mean where do i go from here,thank you for the advice

catonthewire

If you have decided that the relationship is over, and it would appear from the above that you have, you need to seek legal advice about access to your child...

It could be that her family are dictating how she lives her life, but this is not your problem, speak with a solicitor asap...
Keep a record of any dates you last had contact with your child, it's a rotten situation but your relationship with your child is more important than her and the family...

hondacbr9oorr

yes i agree with what your sayn,i spoke on phone with her today and said it striaght out that she cant dictate when she wants to be with me,im going wait to chat face to face cause i cant take anymore of her up and downs behaviour.I no for 100% her mother is telling her everything and what to do,as she minds our son 3 days a week so she thinks its her place to rule what her daughter does,im afriad if she dont grow a backbone its over between us,only so much one can take,thanks for reply