How to get rid of a possessive woman

zetalambda

I've just had a crazy 2 months. Met an extremely sexy pinay here in Manila. Problem is she was telling me she loved me before we even met and was talking about marriage after about a week. Her sister died by suicide a week and a half before we met and she kept telling me that I have filled a void in her life and if I wasn't around she doesn't think she could go on and might end it all too. Been thinking hard about the situation and decided that I'd have to tell her about my previous drug habit. F&^$ing nice one, has worked a charm. I heard about this Shiit before on boards, about some guy in the same situation that just acted like a slob until the nut job left him. Surprised that its happened so fast for me. Only told her about my previous heroin, cocaine and ecstasy habit less than 2 weeks ago and already she seems to be cutting back on meet ups and giving me the strangest looks when we do see each other!!! I've been breaking my arse laughing the last few days and hope to Fcuk that she keeps losing interest the way she has the last week. Just sharing this so other boardsies in the same situation may benefit!

Kevin McCloud

tldr, blast her with the truth maybe?

dogcat

Or you could break up if you feel uncomfortable...

Zippie84

Did you ever care about her...?

zetalambda

dogcat wrote: »

Or you could break up if you feel uncomfortable...

I tried that 6 weeks ago and she threatened suicide!

Trust me the drug route is much better...

YFlyer

Try the girls on Russian Brides next op. Their more aloof.

The Backwards Man

Sounds like a plot from Grange Hill to me.

the evasion_kid

They tend to be a bit clingy down that part of the world

Zippie84

FWIW, I'm glad she's now rid of you.

zetalambda

Zippie84 wrote: »

Did you ever care about her...?

Believe it or not I did have feelings for her at the start but as i began to lose interest, she began to use every trick in the book to keep my interest, first she came from a broken family, after that got no sympathy, she was raped, after that got no belief, she was used by pedophiles!!!, after that got no belief, i don't fcuking know, I've lost interest in anything that comes out of her mouth...

Zippie84

zetalambda wrote: »

Believe it or not I did have feelings for her at the start but as i began to lose interest, she began to use every trick in the book to keep my interest, first she came from a broken family, after that got no sympathy, she was raped, after that got no belief, she was used by pedophiles!!!, after that got no belief, i don't fcuking know, I've lost interest in anything that comes out of her mouth...

yep, she definitely seems well rid.

zetalambda

Zippie84 wrote: »

yep, she definitely seems well rid.

She is sexy as fcuk though and shes coming here tonight!

Petite, dark skinned, dark eyes, dark hair and really naughty!!

Zippie84

zetalambda wrote: »

She is sexy as fcuk though! and shes coming here tonight!!

sooner she see's what quite you're like the better in my opinion, and hopefully also realises that she needs some help and gets it.

eternal

You disgust me. Attempts at humanity were lost in your making.

Littlekittylou

zetalambda wrote: »

She is sexy as fcuk though and shes coming here tonight!

Petite, dark skinned, dark eyes, dark hair and really naughty!!

zetalambda wrote: »

I've just had a crazy 2 months. Met an extremely sexy pinay here in Manila. Problem is she was telling me she loved me before we even met and was talking about marriage after about a week. Her sister died by suicide a week and a half before we met and she kept telling me that I have filled a void in her life and if I wasn't around she doesn't think she could go on and might end it all too. Been thinking hard about the situation and decided that I'd have to tell her about my previous drug habit. F&^$ing nice one, has worked a charm. I heard about this Shiit before on boards, about some guy in the same situation that just acted like a slob until the nut job left him. Surprised that its happened so fast for me. Only told her about my previous heroin, cocaine and ecstasy habit less than 2 weeks ago and already she seems to be cutting back on meet ups and giving me the strangest looks when we do see each other!!! I've been breaking my arse laughing the last few days and hope to Fcuk that she keeps losing interest the way she has the last week. Just sharing this so other boardsies in the same situation may benefit!

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GET BACK IN YOUR CUPBOARD!!!

hatrickpatrick

zetalambda wrote: »

I tried that 6 weeks ago and she threatened suicide!

Been there. Terrifying situation to be in.
Honestly, as harsh as it sounds, all you can do is run. You are not responsible for anyone else's decisions, and you'll ruin your life trying to sort out her issues.
I cut contact with a similar emotionally blackmailing eejit immediately after the suicide threat. Also threatened to tell all our mutual friends that I'd cheated on her when we'd never even been together. Neither scenario unfolded in the end.

Zippie84

eternal wrote: »

You disgust me. Attempts at humanity were lost in your making.

Me too. But I also think there's quite a good chance he's on the wind-up. I'm done either way.

beyondbelief67

How I pity her, really hope she finds someone kind and decent, and that you grow the hell up and get some compassion and empathy for people, oh and respect for women.

Miall108

zetalambda wrote: »

She is sexy as fcuk though and shes coming here tonight!

You could get one last ride for the road and then take a shiit on her chest, that ought to get rid of her

Kristopherus

zetalambda wrote: »

She is sexy as fcuk though and shes coming here tonight!

Petite, dark skinned, dark eyes, dark hair and really naughty!!

Did you blow her up yet, or have you lost your inflator?:D

ChunkyLover54

Stop paying her. Then she'll lose interest.

Satori Rae

I lost any sympathy when you said you were meeting her tonight your doing this to yourself. If she is that nuts, just avoid her if you cant say it like it is.

zetalambda

hatrickpatrick wrote: »

Been there. Terrifying situation to be in.
Honestly, as harsh as it sounds, all you can do is run. You are not responsible for anyone else's decisions, and you'll ruin your life trying to sort out her issues.
I cut contact with a similar emotionally blackmailing eejit immediately after the suicide threat. Also threatened to tell all our mutual friends that I'd cheated on her when we'd never even been together. Neither scenario unfolded in the end.

Thank you brother, It is terrifying indeed. I know there are others out there who have experienced the same situation. We have a week long holiday planned from the start of April and as soon as that's finished (we'll be in different cities then) i'm binning my sim card and blocking here from my email. Christ I can't wait.... Never thought this would happen to me but i'm breaking my arse laughing the last few days about how telling here about my crack habit has turned her off!!

Littlekittylou

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this phrase needs to be my sig...tee hee

SoftMicro

Great plan there Einstein.

All you need now is for that history story you told her to grow legs and turn into a Chinese whisper. One thing leads to another and you'll be accused of being a drug mule or whatnot.

The least of your worries will be a suicidal possessive little sexy minx.

zetalambda

Zippie84 wrote: »

Me too. But I also think there's quite a good chance he's on the wind-up. I'm done either way.

I'm 100% serious and believe me I never in a million years thought I'd find myself in this situation.

Tombi!

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