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I can't move on

LegacyUser · 2015-03-18 16:26:44

Myself and my ex have a one year old and not the greatest relationship. We have been to court several times due to access and maintenance. I've been very lenient with him.. He regularly doesn't pay maintenance. He has 2 hours with my child every week and turns up late and leaves early most weeks. My son plays with him but…

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Myself and my ex have a one year old and not the greatest relationship. We have been to court several times due to access and maintenance. I've been very lenient with him.. He regularly doesn't pay maintenance. He has 2 hours with my child every week and turns up late and leaves early most weeks. My son plays with him but if he is picked up by his dad, he goes beserk. I know in myself that he's not as interested as he makes out to be. I don't necessarily want to go back to court but I know I will have to if he continues behaving like this. I tell him that he has to pay double when he misses a payment but he says to add it what he owes me already. Yet, I know he has money. He has two phones that always have credit. He turns up in new clothes.

Thing is before I start a big long rant about him, he is occupying every single waking thought of mine. I don't know how to forget about him and move on. And not in a romantic way as I was the one to end things, but just always wondering is he going to be around in my sons life all the time. Is he going to be a half arsed father? Will he just fcuk off suddenly and leave my son fatherless? I know that if it happens, I will deal with it, but I just cannot stop thinking about it. I have given him a separate number so that I'm not constantly checking my phone but I'm still thinking. . "i wonder..."
Ugh

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