does she like me? or am I crazy?

Pauly222

So basically in a job 6 months and place I deliver too have been quite friendly with a girl who works in the kitchen. First just a Hi, but in the last two months very intense chats where basically telling me very intimate details about her childhood , Her failings, her good points. All in quick 5 minutes chats a few times a week. I suppose in my opinion there is a certain chemistry. As in often looking to each others eyes for 20 seconds til we say " God we need to look away " But having said that she seems reluctant to give a number or the like from the hints I gave. We are both only children, and doing a similar part time course in the same college ( yet to bump into her there ) The other day whilst driving home I spotted her walking on the street so I jumped out and surprised her. We chatted for an hour outside in the cold, though she was saying early on she had to Go soon as she had a test. Maybe she felt obliged to stay 😠I guess I do have feelings for her and during the chat the other day she kept saying " you seem very anxious, have you something to say" . I brushed it off and said my hand was shaking cause of the cold but it was excitement and nerves of talking to her... will see her again Friday. Hope she doesn't think I am weird for jumping out to talk to her ( I just happened to be near her place of work on the way home) any opinions? What you guys think. I'm 29 and she is 24. No experience with lady's. Lol

allym

Is this the same girl you posted about a few weeks ago? If so, all the signs pointed to her liking you. But if you don't go for it, you'll never know.

Pauly222

allym wrote: »

Is this the same girl you posted about a few weeks ago? If so, all the signs pointed to her liking you. But if you don't go for it, you'll never know.

Yes indeed, I'm very cowardly for not asking her out I know..

s15r330

Just ask! You'll know either way then.
Ps girls like confidence!

smokie72

The second I saw your username I remembered your posts from a few weeks ago. As you seem to be on talking terms with this lady what's the harm in asking her to go for a coffee. I know it's nerve wrecking and all that but you have already gotten over the hardest bit and that is actually talking to her. Fair play for that. Now ask her out. If she says no at least you can move on and that's the worst case scenario. The longer you leave it the more you will over think about it. Maybe she likes you too. Only one way to find out. Women do like confidence as the previous poster said.

Lux23

There's a theory that says no one maintains eye contact for more than 8 seconds with another person unless they either want to murder you or have sex with you. So unless she's planning on killing you, I would imagine she likes you.

Littlekittylou

Pauly222 wrote: »

So basically in a job 6 months and place I deliver too have been quite friendly with a girl who works in the kitchen. First just a Hi, but in the last two months very intense chats where basically telling me very intimate details about her childhood , Her failings, her good points. All in quick 5 minutes chats a few times a week. I suppose in my opinion there is a certain chemistry. As in often looking to each others eyes for 20 seconds til we say " God we need to look away " But having said that she seems reluctant to give a number or the like from the hints I gave. We are both only children, and doing a similar part time course in the same college ( yet to bump into her there ) The other day whilst driving home I spotted her walking on the street so I jumped out and surprised her. We chatted for an hour outside in the cold, though she was saying early on she had to Go soon as she had a test. Maybe she felt obliged to stay 😠I guess I do have feelings for her and during the chat the other day she kept saying " you seem very anxious, have you something to say" . I brushed it off and said my hand was shaking cause of the cold but it was excitement and nerves of talking to her... will see her again Friday. Hope she doesn't think I am weird for jumping out to talk to her ( I just happened to be near her place of work on the way home) any opinions? What you guys think. I'm 29 and she is 24. No experience with lady's. Lol

Is this the same girl as last time?

Meauldsegosha

OP you got 5 pages of advice less then a month telling you to ask this woman out. You are going to get the same advice on this thread. YOU now need to decide whether to ask this woman out.

dudara

@Pauly222 - I'm not quite sure what you're trying to achieve with another thread on the same topic. I'm closing this thread as you are not going to get significantly different advice from your previous thread.

dudara