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What do I do - go or stay?

  • 08-02-2015 6:42pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi, this is a bit of a petty problem but im not really sure what to do. i currently live abroad and my friend is due to get married later in the year. I will be moving home about two months before the wedding. I had thought I would make the hen party but later found out that the bridesmaid was planning it for three weeks before i got home. I would never suggest changing it so i could go and just accepted I wouldnt make it. All was fine now, about two months after it was all planned someone else cant make it so it has been moved to a time when I am home. So it looks like i can make it however I feel a bit put out. No one has let me know its been moved so I dont feel that im all that wanted at it. I know the bride would want me there so I dont know to go or not....sorry this all sounds so teenage drama like!!


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  • #2
    orthsquel
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 563 ✭✭✭orthsquel


    It was probably an oversight re changing the date; it probably didn't occur to them if they didn't know the original date didn't suit and to make contact when it changed, as they might just be focused on wedding stuff and planning the hen and not some deliberate thing to exclude you.
    Make contact with the bridesmaid and let them know you've heard it has moved and would be able to make it if that is definite date and take things from there.


  • #3
    R.D. aka MR.D
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,643 ✭✭✭R.D. aka MR.D


    Contact the bridesmaid and let her know that because of the date change you can go.

    They didn't think of you and that's normal. I'd hazard a guess that this is your first time living abroad and returning home? People's lives go on without you. They think about you less than you think about them, it's the nature of things. You can't be annoyed by little things like this or your return home will be hell when you discover 100 things that people did 'without' you.


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