Anyone had difficulty using condoms?

Chemical Byrne

Basically I’m wondering any of you guys experience this problem with condoms.
I always make sure I’m not sticky before putting one on so that the condom isn’t sliding around all over the place and I can get some feeling during sex. The problem is I tend to produce precum during sex and the result is that after 5 or 6 minutes this starts to lubricate the condom and it starts to move and slip around at the top. The condom stays stationary and I move inside of it. The result is that there is little to no stimulation and it really is a struggle to try to ejaculate.
The only option I have found is to take off the condom, clean myself up and put on a fresh one that won’t slip around. This improves things for another while, but man it’s such a passion killer, the whole thing. It’s mentally unfulfilling too as I basically have to force myself to orgasm and by the time I get there the good is gone out of it.
I am 28. I didn't always produce precum like this, only in the last 2 -3 yrs or so. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not a huge amount or anything, but enough to make the condom slide around a lot.
My partner cannot use the pill due to a separate medical condition with which it might interfere.
I don’t want a vasectomy as I want to have children.
Anyone else ever have this problem? How did you work around it?

harrymagina

Buy smaller condoms. Normal ones are obviously too big for you.

Chemical Byrne

I don't think that is the issue.

The condoms are actually quite tight going on but after a while they begin to stretch and slip about at the top. I didn't have this problem say when I was 20 or 21 as I didn't make as much precum.

DavidRamsay99

Maybe you could buy female condoms?

the baron

There are a lot of contraceptives that your good lady can take other than the pill. Just buy smaller condoms as they will provide more traction

PucaMama

the baron wrote: »

There are a lot of contraceptives that your good lady can take other than the pill. Just buy smaller condoms as they will provide more traction

very very few contraceptives available for women are non hormonal. female contraceptives arent the walk in the park men think they are. op, change condoms.

DavidRamsay99

Buy female condoms.



Problem solved.

Jhcx

always having problems with them. Don't like them at all. Usual standard ones at 56mm I find fit but still a bit too much room. So i used 52mm. These are basically stuck to the skin but do come loose after few goes. But any lubricant s that might form should usually be kept to the top

thierry14

Chemical Byrne wrote: »

My partner cannot use the pill due to a separate medical condition with which it might interfere.

I thought you were going to a hotel this weekend?

stretch film

thierry14 wrote: »

I thought you were going to a hotel this weekend?

Nah thats a different guy :-)
He's an inexperienced 31 year old dont ya know.

Chancer3001

What the ****?

So op is just a weirdo who makes threads loosely relating to sex?

Op, please explain how you've had problems with condoms with your girlfriend who can't take the pill....and in another thread you're going away for a weekend with a girl you've never slept with.

Spencer Winterbotham

Op: Ive invested a lot in you. You need to explain yourself.

Grab All Association

liamog

There's a company called MYSIZE who make condoms in a range of sizes, they even have a little tape measure so you can find the right one.

Sizing is about the girth not the length.

Wibbs

Chancer3001 wrote: »

What the ****?

So op is just a weirdo who makes threads loosely relating to sex?

Op, please explain how you've had problems with condoms with your girlfriend who can't take the pill....and in another thread you're going away for a weekend with a girl you've never slept with.

Yea I was thinking that a bit funny alright Chancer. Thread closed.

Oh and Chemical Byrne? Don't start any more threads in this forum until your age and relationship status stabilises.