Getting the shift

emma9

I've been chatting to a boy over the last two weeks and he asked me to shift him before school some morning, and I agreed. I'm 17 and I've never shifted anyone before (because I haven't been to teen discos and I wouldn't do it before or after school because everyone would know and I'm quite shy).

He said we'd keep it between ourselves but I'm wondering whether I should tell my bestfriend, she would be annoyed if I didn't and he'll probably tell his friends anyway.

The thing is I'm really nervous and I don't know how to act. Won't it be really awkward before, during and after it? I'm afraid I'll mess it up as well. I know this is a stupid (and embarrassing) post but any advice or experience?

Please don't give smart answers, thanks.

LucidLife

emma9 wrote: »

I've been chatting to a boy over the last two weeks and he asked me to shift him before school some morning, and I agreed. I'm 17 and I've never shifted anyone before (because I haven't been to teen discos and I wouldn't do it before or after school because everyone would know and I'm quite shy).

He said we'd keep it between ourselves but I'm wondering whether I should tell my bestfriend, she would be annoyed if I didn't and he'll probably tell his friends anyway.

The thing is I'm really nervous and I don't know how to act. Won't it be really awkward before, during and after it? I'm afraid I'll mess it up as well. I know this is a stupid (and embarrassing) post but any advice or experience?

Please don't give smart answers, thanks.

Don't stress too much, he is probably more nervous than you. Grab the back of his neck while ye kiss. He will go weak at the knees.

There is no shame in it, tell your friend. ..she can probably give you advice too.

You can't mess it up, it's naturally going to come to you. Just close your eyes and enjoy

FluffyAngel

Hi op ..


Theres no right or wrong way to kiss

you have agreed to shift him ,so theres attraction there (thats the hardbit)

the more you think about it ,the harder it will be ..

enjoy it ,write about it so you will never forget it ...

Rubberchikken

do you actually want to kiss some guy before school?
if you do, then the advice above is probably on target.
if you'd prefer to go on a date and have some guy show you the respect you deserve, then you might need to shop around.

and bear in mind, what teen lad ever kept this kind of thing quiet?

Taltos

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Best of luck
Taltos