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It is fair to ask him to give up a part of who he is?

  • 14-01-2015 11:16am
    #1
    HisPresence
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30 ✭


    My original thread regarding to my boyfriend got deleted here yesterday because I dare to post the same thread asked for advice in another forum. Which I don't think I violate any forum rule here, since no rule here say I cannot asked for the same advice in a nother forum. But anyways that thread is gone,

    But I really want to hear others opinion regarding to how unreasonable would it be if I ask my boyfriend to give up the life style that he been living for the past 29 years. Give up the place and childhood friends that he grow up wtih for the past 29 years.
    Good or not, all these is a part of who he is. Even if he give all that up for me, would he truely be happy when start his life at somewhere else new?
    What are the chances for two people who love each others, but have different life style, to actually work out at the end?


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  • #2
    Stealthfins
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,141 ✭✭✭Stealthfins


    Recipe for disaster.


  • #3
    HisPresence
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30 ✭HisPresence


    by any chance anyone know who is the Admin owner of this forum? is there any way to contact the Admin?
    i really want my original thread restore, as I don't think I violate any rules to have my orginal thread deleted.
    I didn't advertise anything in my thread, all I talk about is the circumstances of my relationship. And I didn't think it was a sin to post the same thread at another forum to ask for the advice.

    well thank you Stealthfins, without my orginal thread, this post it indeed seem like I'm a very selfish person to ask him to give up a part of who he is just for me.


  • #4
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Hi OP

    we exchanged PMs on this and I explained in detail why your thread was removed.
    Posting the above is still you posting now on the same issue, just with different words. My logic to remove your thread and this stands.

    You may escalate this to my fellow category mod - Scofflaw if you wish, keep in mind though that deleting your threads was supported by the Admin team who we answer to. In the meantime - if you post on this topic again we will suspend your posting rights here.

    I will not ask our posters here to give you the same or similar advice you have sought in three different forums since November last year. That might seem harsh but this is how it is here. As per my PM, as much as we seek to protect our OPs we also seek to protect our posters - without both groups this forum would not function and asking them to give you a message that you seem not to be taking in, considering you have now posted on this issue in at least 4 different forums including boards (not counting individual threads) it might be time to consider seeking advice outside of the internet as it doesn't appear to be sinking in.

    Regards
    Taltos


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