Putting in a decent shift

Beaner1

I'm struggling to keep going with my partner for 20+ minutes which is annoying me as. Is there any point looking for delay sprays? Condoms add some time but I'd rather not use them. I've tried coating my bell in a mouth ulcer cream which has lidocaine in it. That gave mixed results.

Mr. Incognito

You could just stop and try other things like oral kissing etc

Not every woman wants to be jackhammered for a half hour.

Porn is not reality friend

Beaner1

Mr. Incognito wrote: »

You could just stop and try other things like oral kissing etc

Not every woman wants to be jackhammered for a half hour.

Porn is not reality friend

Trust me, she wants to be jackhammered.

athtrasna

Durex did a range of condoms that are supposed to speed her up and show him down. Not cheap but anecdotally they work.

jigglypuffstuff

I have often went up to 1 hr before...but usually its anywhere from 20-40 mins or thereabouts depending.....in my experience i think its what you do in that time that really counts not how long it is

And jokes aside...if you are lasting 20 mins in bed you are doing a hell of a lot better than many guys,

Dont be so hard on yourself....and if you do want to last longer check out a technique called edging, should help!

strobe

Have her make you come however it is you prefer as foreplay. Then the second or third time, after a bit of a break, you'll last longer. Most girls in my experience seem to think that when you come once you're done. Let her know that's not the case. First time is a warm up.

SkunkyDoodle

The mutual climax ones do work. What worked for my ex though was starting and stopping when you get close and switching to kissing or oral sex for her, she'll be blown away, the build up and end result are unreal for both of you

RoscommonTom

Beaner1 wrote: »

Trust me, she wants to be jackhammered.

She sounds like a right horny one, Id love to meet her, you could try two jonnies which is supposed to work or else **** earlier in the day to stop you being so excited

Penny Tration

RoscommonTom wrote: »

She sounds like a right horny one, Id love to meet her, you could try two jonnies which is supposed to work or else **** earlier in the day to stop you being so excited

Do NOT use two condoms!

They're much more likely to split. You should never use more than one for each sex session.


Firstly, op, 20 minutes of solid 'going at it' is really good going for a man. Average is about 3-5 minutes from what I've read! So you're way above average.

If she wants it to last even longer, though, masturbate before, or even ask her to make you come before ye have sex. Then you can work on getting her excited while waiting for your erection to come back

stateofflux

Beaner1 wrote: »

I'm struggling to keep going with my partner for 20+ minutes which is annoying me as. Is there any point looking for delay sprays? Condoms add some time but I'd rather not use them. I've tried coating my bell in a mouth ulcer cream which has lidocaine in it. That gave mixed results.

have a few drinks beforehand but don't get legless. it should make you last longer.

Beaner1

stateofflux wrote: »

have a few drinks beforehand but don't get legless. it should make you last longer.

A few drinks, earlier action and rubber and if hit any length of time. But I can't rely on that. Edging methods don't work. Cock rings give a small benefit.

RoscommonTom

Beaner1 wrote: »

A few drinks, earlier action and rubber and if hit any length of time. But I can't rely on that. Edging methods don't work. Cock rings give a small benefit.

Cock rings might help her to cum too, what is the edging

Tokyo

RoscommonTom wrote: »

She sounds like a right horny one, Id love to meet her, you could try two jonnies which is supposed to work or else **** earlier in the day to stop you being so excited

RoscommonTom wrote: »

Cock rings might help her to cum too, what is the edging

RoscommonTom - PI is an advice forum, not a discussion forum. As per the forum charter, please post constructively towards the OP's issue, or not at all.

Regards,
Mike

Tokyo

Mod Note:

OP, considering the nature of the advice you are looking for and the direction the thread is going, I think you might get better answers in the Gentleman's Club, with more flexibility for discussion. Moving thread now - please note that their charter applies from here on in.

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Wibbs

Actually, I'm thinking nope, as I can't see this thread going anywhere but down(no pun)