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  • 28-12-2014 3:40pm
    #1
    HML
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12 ✭


    Not sure if I'm posting in the right place, sorry if not!

    But in need of advice regarding a guy I like, we've met once about three weeks ago, and got on really well, we chatted on Facebook for days after and I was getting some really positive vibes, anyway about a week or more ago I chatted him but there was no reply which kind of gave me the impression he wasn't interested which was fine, I left it. But over the last couple of days I've noticed he's been liking my photos on Facebook, and not just one he might have liked by mistake, there have been multiple, and I'm just wondering should I chat him again? Or does that look sad seeing as he never replied to the last one?


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  • #2
    Lucyfur
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,513 ✭✭✭✭Lucyfur


    MOD

    Hi OP,

    I've moved your thread to the Relationship Issues forum. Their charter now applies.

    Best of luck,

    Lucy.


  • #3
    Meauldsegosha
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,617 ✭✭✭Meauldsegosha


    Instead of just chatting with him, why don't you ask to meet him for a coffee or a drink?


  • #4
    Paco Rodriguez
    Closed Accounts Posts: 701 ✭✭✭Paco Rodriguez


    If he was interested he wouldn't ignore your message...and since he was online to like your photos he was online to see your message.

    Did he like multiple photos all at the same time? Maybe he was after a few drinks and had the beer goggles?


  • #5
    mada82
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 577 ✭✭✭mada82


    I'd have to agree with the above. He would have replied if he was interested enough.

    No harm in sending another message asking to go for a drink. If he ignores that then I'd just leave it.


  • #6
    KomradeBishop
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,981 ✭✭✭KomradeBishop


    There are all sorts of innocent reasons why he may not have replied, don't take it as a sign of anything unless it becomes a pattern. Just message the guy again, say it'd be fun to meet for a chat sometime, and ask him if he'd like to go for coffee or something - get to meet in person, and take it from there.

    I don't know what Facebook is like for chatting (never used it), but if it's instant messaging of some kind, you're better off sending him an email or something like that, that he can respond to in his own time, if wanting to organize meeting up.


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