Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

Opinions Please

  • 24-12-2014 9:29pm
    #1
    AckwelFoley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭


    Long story short, I'm friends with a guy for years he's a good friend and through the years has been good to me, his life however over the last few years, a decade or so never developed other than turning into an alcoholic and an addict. His business not mine, my life has moved on.

    It has come to my attention however that he is a real prick to women, manipulative and an all round asshole in so many different ways. I've found this out and it has made me angry the way he has treated his last girlfriend in particular. So much so that I gave her money through a 3rd party for her to pay him back while he took her car for ransom.

    He's unaware I know his behaviour. He has since broke up with her and off with someone else, the thing is I know his ex has his Facebook password and spies on him.. now while she's wrong to be doing it I've little sympathy for him for what he's put her through.

    What should I do. I feel guilty knowing she has his password and not telling him..but I'm not supposed to know this so I can't tell him..


Comments

  • #2
    ABajaninCork
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,411 ✭✭✭ABajaninCork


    So don't. Keep out of it.


  • #3
    Rubberchikken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭Rubberchikken


    Agree ^^
    Stay out of it totally


  • #4
    AckwelFoley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley


    Yea. I have pretty much kept mute on it and frankly given him a bit of a wide berth. His life is in pubs and bookies..mine..working and nappies


  • #5
    ABajaninCork
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,411 ✭✭✭ABajaninCork


    There you go. You're not certain you have the full strength and have enough on your plate to be getting on with. The 'happy' couple sound as though they deserve each other.


  • #6
    shuffle65
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 204 ✭✭shuffle65


    Jeez, avoid both of them like the plague, they sound like a right pair!


  • Advertisement
  • #7
    AckwelFoley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley


    Agree, its a little more difficult when he has been my best mate for 20 years. She's a good woman, has been through alot before him and he hasn't been any help.

    I tend to agree though, keep out of it completely, I suppose I just needed a second opinion of sorts


  • #8
    Littlekittylou
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,357 ✭✭✭Littlekittylou


    I would tell him to change his password because he has been spamming or something. You don't need to say why.Just say change your password mate insist if you have to.

    Then leave the both of them alone.Two wrongs don't make a right. Why anyone would want an FB password anyway I don't know.


  • #9
    Wompa1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,252 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    Littlekittylou wrote: »
    I would tell him to change his password because he has been spamming or something. You don't need to say why.Just say change your password mate insist if you have to.

    Then leave the both of them alone.Two wrongs don't make a right. Why anyone would want an FB password anyway I don't know.

    I'm with her. It will ease your conscience. It is kind of lousy that she's spying on him, even if he is a pr1ck


Advertisement