Advice needed fast

LegacyUser

Ok guys i need advice and i need it fast

about 6 weeks ago i met a girl...very rocky start she was seeing another guy etc..we were not exclusive or anything so it wasnt anything major...around 2nd dec she decided we would give it a go but always was unsure still has trust issues

She does tell me that she loves me and i feel ...well a kind of love...its more caring than love...its not the type of love ive had before..its much different...like we enjoy each others company..sex is great, and we are practically the same as each other, very protective and whatnot..not in a jealous way..more like a best friend is protective of their best friend

Now shes always says she was honest since start of dec but lately the guy she was seeing before me hacked her facebook and got my number and sent me a screenshot of a message from lastweek where she spoke with a guy who she'd seen once previous to both of us and there were talks of meeting after xmas again...seriously ive no problem to let this go and be rid of the hassle.

This morning she sat me down and told me she is not well at all...in a very serious manner and it can be most definatley life threatning...i was stunned but i she showed me some letters from the doctor

To top all of this off....we agreed tonight would be our last night together mutually, We'd have a bit of fun and call it a day

I cant help but wonder should i confront her on her lies and try to get the truth or just kick her out of my life? she told me she wants me there no matter if its friend or boyfriend or whatever..i do like her as a person but i knew not to trust her which is why im not hurt in all of this but i would like to know why she felt the need to lie and would like the truth

Mr. Incognito

1. Six WEEKS

2. She said she loved you? WTF?

3. At least three guys on the go.

4. Doctors letters of mental issues.

Do you really need to be told, delete this head melt from your facebook/ your phone/ your life and RUN A MILE

dermot10

I have to agree with 'Mr Incognito '....this girl will have a serious negative effect on your life and will drive you 'crazy' . It sounds like she has some major issues..!!!

Penny Tration

The op says nothing about her having mental health issues, just a potentially life threatening illness!

Op - she's a head wrecker. She doesn't love you after six weeks. She doesn't KNOW you after six weeks! And, seeing other people, lying to you, and now a life threatening illness?

For your own sake, forget the 'last night' of passion and run as fast as your legs will carry you.

wirelessdude01

I'd be gone before she pulls the i'm pregnant line and doesn't know which lad is the daddy!

Big Bag of Chips

That's an awful lot of drama for 6 weeks. Wish her well and say your goodbyes.

giggle84

If you have mutually agreed that this is your last night together.. why do you feel the need to confront her over anything? You've already decided she's not going to be in your life anymore, why create drama on her way out?!

ABajaninCork

giggle84 wrote: »

If you have mutually agreed that this is your last night together.. why do you feel the need to confront her over anything? You've already decided she's not going to be in your life anymore, why create drama on her way out?!

This. Enjoy your night out, then get out of Dodge. Fast. That girl isn't all the ticket. And are you sure those letters are from a genuine quack??

Oink

Op, your story sounds like Fair City on a bad day. Within 6 weeks she's fallen for you while hoping to meet ex #1, and you've been told by ex #2 who hacked into her facebook and.... Whaaat?

I'm with Incognito. Change the channel.