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biggest mistake of my life

  • 11-12-2014 9:02am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I was recently in a 5 year relationship, on and off for the last 6 months of it. I made a terrible drunken mistake at the start and cheated and then when I new we were going to finish I did it again at the end, also while drunk. So drunk I only know it happened cause my friend told me. I know my drinking is a problem on nights out and I am changing that. But we had such a great relationship and I loved him so much and believe I still do I just couldn't understand where it was going wrong. I never told him about the first time for fear of losing him. I havent spoken to him in 5 months and in reality I should just leave him. But I can't stop thinking about him and I don't know what to do. I know how horrible of a person I am believe me I tell myself everyday!!


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  • #2
    Dixie Chick
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,062 ✭✭✭Dixie Chick


    Honestly, you have cheated twice and the relationship was falling apart for 6 months before the actual break up. I think you need to draw the line and concentrate on moving on as you could cause hurt to the other person by going back when it already wasn't working


  • #3
    Oryx
    Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    Stop hating yourself for it, learn from it, and move on. Yes, you should just leave him. It didnt work out and its not the right relationship for you. If you have problems with drinking, then focus on them for a while and not relationships. Get stronger so that when the right person does come along, you will be able to get the best from being with them.


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