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  • 08-12-2014 5:12pm
    #1
    Shadylou
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 253 ✭✭


    i ended my long term relationship 18 months ago but we remained on good terms for the sake of the kids. It was amicable enough ( I had a lot of issues with his family)we both realised the relationship had run its course and we both still had a lot of respect for each other even if we didn't like each other very much.
    Our son was only 18 months at the time so he just got on with things but our daughter who was 8 took it very badly and the school referred us to a counsellor who has really helped her.
    My ex takes the kids every Friday night and every second Saturday night and has been very good with them and with paying maintenance.
    We are both in relationships with other people now, he has been in a long distance relationship for the past 8 months while I have been seeing someone for 3 months and up til now it hasn't been an issue, the kids have come first.
    When my ex was bringing the kids home today he informed me that he was going to stay with his girlfriend for Christmas and new year and wouldn't see our kids but he can Skype them Xmas morning when they are opening their presents!!
    I am fuming with him as the kids are really upset and also my daughter told me that over the weekend he called her by the girlfriends daughters name twice ( they are nothing alike!!)
    I feel like he's moving on and leaving my kids behind....I don't want to argue with him over this but I do think it's out of line
    I also work in a hotel and Xmas and new year are very busy times for me, he helped out with childcare a lot last year and I am going to be really stuck for babysitters this year now, he always saved his annual leave for Xmas for this reason.
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