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Tired of friends

LegacyUser · 2014-12-03 16:42:02

I've become disinterested in all my friends of late. There is only one person who I don't mind spending time with although when he texts me I rarely reply. If anyone else texts me or messages me on Facebook I feel like it's a chore to get back to them. I was never like this before, I would always be there to listen or help…

03-12-2014 4:42pm

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I've become disinterested in all my friends of late. There is only one person who I don't mind spending time with although when he texts me I rarely reply. If anyone else texts me or messages me on Facebook I feel like it's a chore to get back to them. I was never like this before, I would always be there to listen or help and that's probably why a lot of people consider me a close friend. I feel very ungrateful for saying this but I'm just sick of the sight of them all, I've begun to become snappy with them and lose my patience because I just don't want to be around them anymore. A couple of my friends are very reliant on me too, sometimes I feel like they're an emotional drain or just too clingy. I make no effort when we meet up because I just don't want to be around them. It's my free time and I'd prefer spend it doing something I enjoy rather than with people I really don't like. It is very selfish but it's something that has only come about, I never felt that way before. It's not depression either, I'm happy in myself. I think I've just become very introverted. I also feel like I've spent my entire life listening to everyone's problems and no one ever cared to ask me how I was feeling? A part of me feels like cutting contact with most of them and deleting my Facebook. If I'm honest I only like one of them. Am I weird for feeling this way?

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