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I love/hate my boyfriend!

  • 06-11-2014 6:46pm
    #1
    araic88
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 313 ✭✭


    I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. Lots of times that we're together i feel like I'm glowing, and I probably am beaming with happiness. Then other times he drives me crazy! He loves telling silly jokes/doing silly things to wind me up & sometimes I do find them funny, others it can be irritating. Also, I think we've different temperaments so I find him a bit abrasive at times whereas he doesn't see that he is at all (he'd never shout or anything but can be a bit impatient whereas im really laid back.)

    I generally live a low key kind of life & don't really like how it feels like I'm on a rollercoaster, Really happy then unsure/doubtful about things. Still, when things are good I can't imagine ending things & I think I'd end up regretting it.

    Is this normal or does it not bode well for the future? He keeps saying we're perfect together & Will be together forever but he's been in a few long term relationships whereas mine have all been shorter & I've never been in love before. maybe that's partly why things feel confusing. I wish they were more straightforward!!


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  • #2
    strandroad
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,676 ✭✭✭strandroad


    Keep going, give it time. 6 months is not much. You will either learn to live around each other's quirks or they'll become unbearable and you'll split.


  • #3
    Dr. Lollington
    Site Banned Posts: 69 ✭✭Dr. Lollington


    Hate is quite a strong word to use and doesn't bode well so early on in my opinion. It's early doors at 6 months and if he's annoying you at this stage, how do you think you'll feel at 6 years or even 16 years?

    It's fine for you guys to have different personalities as long as you compliment each other and strike a balance that works for you. I wouldn't throw in the towel just yet but I'm dubious as to what the future holds for you guys tbh.


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