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Thoughts as to how she is thinking?

  • 06-11-2014 5:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I have broke up with my ex girlfriend in June of this year as she moved to Oz and I was not prepared to do the LDR thing.Since then I have went on a few dates but nothing serious.

    I have however one friend. We work together (not closely) and know each other about 3 years. Even when I was going out with my GF I had a great laugh in work and on work nights out with said girl. We were probably best friends in work. A few nights however she would get blind drunk and fall out with me for no reason. She is a little bit crazy so I put this down to drink and the next week we would be fine again.

    Over the 5 years I know her she has had a few boyfriends come and go but none stick. Recently she has began ringing me after her nights out when she would have a few drinks on her. Last week on work night out we kissed and ended up in bed. Same thing the week after. Nothing happened there however. The following day at breakfast she was talking about another guy in work who she likes and wants to "shift". We are late twenties though and I thought this was weird but didn't say anything to her and just played along.

    I am not sure how I feel about her romantically and as a result have stopped texting / snapchatting her but am completely baffled as to what she thinks is going on. She has continued as normal though.

    Any ideas into how she see this? Am I a Friend with who she shares a few drunken kisses or does she view it as more?


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  • #2
    Tokyo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,656 ✭✭✭✭Tokyo


    Confused coworker wrote: »
    Am I a Friend with who she shares a few drunken kisses or does she view it as more?

    None of us here can tell you that - the only way you're going to find out is by asking her. But by the sounds of it you don't think you are interested in a romantic relationship with her, or has that changed?

    Either way you need to (a) figure out what you want, and (b) sit down with her and ask her what she wants fom all of this, and see if there's overlap. And take it from there.


  • #3
    Mr. Incognito
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,798 ✭✭✭Mr. Incognito


    Sounds like she was chatting about the other guy to make you jealous and suss you out.

    Sounds like a head wreck of a girl tbh.


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