Met My First Pick Up Artist Last Night

astonaidan

So I met my first PUA last night and honestly got to say its the worst experience off my life, I would take the cockblocking Irish at home any time.
Went out to the cinema with a girl im really into and her cousin, who didnt turn up, great start. Then we decided to get a few drinks cause the movie was sold out anyways.
So went to a bar and was just drinking and having a great time and then her cousin joined us after she was finished college, then left us after five mins great again when this tosser came up and joins us, he introduced himself to her blatantly ignored me, pretty much spent the next two hours trying to put me down and flirt with the girl. It was surreal, like I left with her, but she did give her number to him:(

skallywag

Could the fact that the cousin was going along as well mean that she isn't really into you in the first place?

eviltwin

Does she know your're into her? She's not a mind reader, neither is the guy. If you act like you're just friends why shouldn't he ask for her number and why shouldn't she give it?

OU812

You spent two hours letting some guy ignore you while chatting up your date?

You weren't alpha enough, that's why she gave him her number.

ancapailldorcha

If she fell for the PUA tosh, you probably wouldn't want to get in a relationship with her anyway.

H3llR4iser

astonaidan wrote: »

So I met my first PUA last night and honestly got to say its the worst experience off my life, I would take the cockblocking Irish at home any time.

I am not sure what you mean here...who was cockblocking?

astonaidan wrote: »

Went out to the cinema with a girl im really into and her cousin, who didnt turn up, great start. Then we decided to get a few drinks cause the movie was sold out anyways.
So went to a bar and was just drinking and having a great time and then her cousin joined us after she was finished college, then left us after five mins great again when this tosser came up and joins us, he introduced himself to her blatantly ignored me, pretty much spent the next two hours trying to put me down and flirt with the girl. It was surreal, like I left with her, but she did give her number to him

Ok, here's the bad news: she's not into you. If she was "considering the opportunity", she clearly made her mind up in a negative way as she gave her number out to the other guy.

Moreover, I wouldn't have a very high consideration of her for "falling prey" of that kind of shenanigans. If you are as I suspect in College, there is a very good supply of much smarter ladies around you. Next.

LordNorbury

If you're on a date with a girl and she lets a guy chat her up in your company and hands her number out to another guy who is chatting her up, then you get up and walk out the door and leave her sorry arse in the company of the guy she gave it to.

Next problem...

Jack Skellington

Was this a date op or a get together were you ended up alone with the girl you like?

Greenmachine

LordNorbury wrote: »

If you're on a date with a girl and she lets a guy chat her up in your company and hands her number out to another guy who is chatting her up, then you get up and walk out the door and leave her sorry arse in the company of the guy she gave it to.

Next problem...

This. And chuck your pint in the guys face and tell him looks like you picked up more than you were hoping for.
Just the drink not the glass.

LordNorbury

She'd need to be a serious cúnt though to go on a date with you and carry on like this. The fact that she brought her mate (or had intended to bring her mate), kind of leaves me with the impression that she didn't think this was a date from the get go, whereas you did, and that might be where wires got crossed here, most women not being absolute cúnts like...

Jack Skellington

Greenmachine wrote: »

This. And chuck your pint in the guys face and tell him looks like you picked up more than you were hoping for.
Just the drink not the glass.

Waste of a good pint. Chuck her pint in his face.

helimachoptor

Op presume you're in the states?

Mike747

astonaidan wrote: »

So I met my first PUA last night and honestly got to say its the worst experience off my life, I would take the cockblocking Irish at home any time.
Went out to the cinema with a girl im really into and her cousin, who didnt turn up, great start. Then we decided to get a few drinks cause the movie was sold out anyways.
So went to a bar and was just drinking and having a great time and then her cousin joined us after she was finished college, then left us after five mins great again when this tosser came up and joins us, he introduced himself to her blatantly ignored me, pretty much spent the next two hours trying to put me down and flirt with the girl. It was surreal, like I left with her, but she did give her number to him:(

Do you think she gave him her number out of politeness or because she actually like him? Girls will often give out their numbers and then never reply to the guy when he contacts her.

You have to be honest with yourself, did he out game you? And you have to think about whether you're in the friendzone. How long have you known her?

ancapailldorcha

Mike747 wrote: »

Do you think she gave him her number out of politeness or because she actually like him? Girls will often give out their numbers and then never reply to the guy when he contacts her.

You have to be honest with yourself, did he out game you? And you have to think about whether you're in the friendzone. How long have you known her?

Out game? Jesus wept.

Mike747

ancapailldorcha wrote: »

Out game? Jesus wept.

Why is our Lord crying?

Mike747

LordNorbury wrote: »

If you're on a date with a girl and she lets a guy chat her up in your company and hands her number out to another guy who is chatting her up, then you get up and walk out the door and leave her sorry arse in the company of the guy she gave it to.

Next problem...

Agree in principal, but storming off would just make the op look like a jealous bitch.

ancapailldorcha

Mike747 wrote: »

Why is our Lord crying?

Because people are coming out with nonsense like this.

Mike747

ancapailldorcha wrote: »

Because people are coming out with nonsense like this.

What is nonsensical? Pulling is a skill and it seems like the op got out played.

Kevhog1988

Dont see the major deal... You stood there n let him do it.... You must of looked like her gay bff

Larianne

Are you sure the girl in question knew she was on a date with you?
Was it a date at all?

Mike747

theemigrant wrote: »

Dont see the major deal... You stood there n let him do it.... You must of looked like her gay bff

****ing lol'd at that.

Chance The Fapper

Sounded like it want actually a date, and the only reason you hate him is because he stole your girl, if he was a friend of yoursgetting done random girl you'd be calling him a legend

Barely There

Mike747 wrote: »

Why is our Lord crying?

Because of all the people who masturbate mostly.

Sauve

Ah lads. Does nobody read the rules anymore?!

To quote directly from the charter

"Discussion of Pick-Up-Artists (PUA) methods and techniques are not allowed on this forum"