Whats the best thing to do?

eddiervp20

Me and an ex gf have been broken up not far off two years and im finding it incredibly difficult to move on.

One of the major problems is I see her quite frequently as we have a child together and I feel everytime I see or talk to her all old feelings come rushing back in.

When we first split up I really took it in my stride as I felt things werent working anyways so I never thought about it.

We both have had other partners in that time but as we both split (mine was much more short term) we began talking about getting back together after talking things through.

I think I then realised how much I missed her and any other girl id been with never came close too her.But as time went on us getting back together never happened as minor fights over what we did in the time we were broke up seemed to cause rifts.

We slept together a few months back and the next day things didnt feel awkward for me and I felt really happy to wake up beside her but she thought we still needed to take things slowly to be safe.

Unfortunately that was the last time we were together and I know for sure now that I need to move on and I know she will.

I dread to think how il feel when she meets someone and I know its a reality I need to come to terms with as we do have a good relationship over our child.

I want to know has anyone ever been through something similar to this and whats the best way to move on..and believe me iv really tried but I keep reverting my thoughts on what could be or was!

Any advice or experience is welcome.

CaraMay

Have you talked about it since? Give it one more go.