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Second date: what is a girl looking for?

  • 22-08-2014 8:22pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey! I met a girl a month ago on a drunken night out and we slept together..
    Since then we kept in touch, whatsapp'd a lot & then last week met up for the 1st time after the event..She drove down to me for the day...
    We went for a nice walk, had a good chat and had a nice dinner; no booze...and just a simple hug and a kiss and she drove home..
    She lives about 1.5 hour drive from me..

    So, on Sunday we are meeting for the 2nd time after the weekend we met..
    Plan is just to meet up, go for a nice walk and have lunch..
    We are going to quite a scenic area; so it should be really nice..

    So the one night stand was fuelled by drink and excitement but we are still just getting to know each other 'in the cold light of day..'
    I am very chatty and open, she is composed and quieter, but soft underneath..

    So how do I approach this 2nd date?
    Should i make an effort to hug/kiss her/hold her hand...?
    Sorry of the naive questions: i haven't been in this situ for a while!!

    What do you think she is looking for from me?


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  • #2
    Big Bag of Chips
    Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,914 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    OP, you've opened a few threads now about what to do when you meet this girl. The formula doesn't change from date to date. Whatever you've done so far has worked because you are now due to meet her for a 3rd time/2nd date.

    I'm afraid you are going to have to go this one alone! There's nothing else the posters of PI can offer you by way of advice, and allowing you to post here on an ongoing basis about what to do on dates will just lead to posters repeating the same advice and possibly even getting annoyed at you for asking the same questions time and time again.

    She clearly likes you. So stop worrying about all the little details of what you should do or should say. I think the time has come now for you to fly the nest and make it in the world of dating without the posters of PI guiding you through.

    Good luck, although, I don't think you really need it!


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