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  • 22-08-2014 1:06pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I have two groups of friends that I socialize with-3 and 3. Anytime I try to ask others along-they rarely come. I get sensitive about it and think Im a real failure. I can get ratty with them. The guys that dont come. The are just so hard to get out.
    I have come to the conclusion that I should just stop inviting these guys as they rarely come out. I just like having larger groups-its better crack. I feel like a failure for not drawing a crowd..


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  • #2
    tenifan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 523 ✭✭✭tenifan


    So other people don't want to go out with you and 2 of your friends? Why do you want to drag people out? What's the issue?


  • #3
    fluffybiscuits
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 152 ✭✭fluffybiscuits


    Loserloser wrote: »
    I have two groups of friends that I socialize with-3 and 3. Anytime I try to ask others along-they rarely come. I get sensitive about it and think Im a real failure. I can get ratty with them. The guys that dont come. The are just so hard to get out.
    I have come to the conclusion that I should just stop inviting these guys as they rarely come out. I just like having larger groups-its better crack. I feel like a failure for not drawing a crowd..

    I dont really get this tbh. Form new friends or just socialise with other people. They may be territorial or just lazy twats...


  • #4
    tenifan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 523 ✭✭✭tenifan


    Bobbewing wrote: »
    I think they are lazy but its just they contact me-I invite them out-some excuse starts-then I get ratty. Cant help it. Always felt unpopular. Like I have missed boat on having a good gang of friends. .

    What age are you? In fairness, you probably did miss the days when you went out with a big pack to the pub. But if you want a bigger group of friends, try an activity like cycling or running where groups of people with similar interests meet up and do stuff.


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