Worried Sick

psometimes

Hello I am not sure why I am posting here but I am driving myself mad with worry. I slept with a girl I know ( a one night stand ) on saturday/sunday morning and I have been stressing myself out over it ever since mainly because it was the wrong thing to do and also I am afraid of my life that she may end up pregnant.

I did wear a condom and I checked it was alright after we were finished and I also used "the pullout" method even though I was wearing a condom. I am nearly sure that I did not ejaculate inside this girl but how sure can you be??? She told me not to be worrying ,, that she is not due for a few weeks ( around 3 she said ) but I just can't help it I am tormenting myself. I am checking sites to see if I can work out when she would ovulate based on what she said and end up with my head spinning. I don't want to wreck this girl's head anymore because I think I have the last few days but I am driving myself insane. I just keep wondering what are the odds going to be that she would end up pregnant etc . Many thanks for reading

sashafierce

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psometimes

I know you are right but I can't help it I am just afraid that it will go wrong. I really should cope on to myself

burke027

psometimes wrote: »

I know you are right but I can't help it I am just afraid that it will go wrong. I really should cope on to myself

You seem very young
If wat you say you did is true ie. Wear a condom and pulled out then stop worrying you will be fine.
And seriously don't keep annoying the girl over it she will think you nuts and you don't want that.
Play it cool chill out and relax leave things as they are and don't be reading up on stuff wrecking your own head

ManOfMystery

No-one here can say if she is pregnant. However it seems extremely unlikely given the fact that you (a) wore a condom, and (b) pulled out before you fully ejaculated anyway.

Whatever the case, worrying will not change things one single bit - it will only stress you out. Just relax, and get on with life - there's no point worrying any more until you hear otherwise!

psometimes

Yes your are right Burke027 , I am 37 and going on like an idiot, I wish I was able to say feck it and not worry it would be a lot easier then what I am doing right now. Yes what I said is true and yes I won't be annoying this girl again over it!!!

psometimes

Thanks Man of Mystery for your reply!!!

iusedtoknow

If everything happened like you said it did, you'd be incredibly unlucky for her to be pregnant

You were smart and wore protection, you were cautious and pulled out. I doubt there'll be anything to worry about

psometimes

Thanks I used to know, hopefully all will be ok!!