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Can't get him out of my head!

  • 10-08-2014 10:18pm
    #1
    sjbc_84
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6 ✭


    I started another thread here shortly after I joined a few months ago seeking some advice on some relationship problems I was having. All advice given back then was grateful received :)

    To cut a long story short, I met this guy back in February. We went on a few dates and started seeing each other for a few months. Things sadly fizzled out towards the end of May. He said he needed space for a while as he was going through some personal stuff which he needed to sort out. As disappointed as I was to hear this, I understood and told him I was only a text or phone call away if he needed anything. We kept in touch via the odd text, Facebook comment etc but about two weeks ago we ended up together after very drunken separate nights out...(not sure if that was the cleverest of ideas!)

    Anyway I can't stop thinking about him and find myself wondering if things will get back on track between us again at some point. Even though we were only seeing each other for a short while, I still have strong feelings for him which I can't seem to shake off. He is the first guy I have felt like this about since my ex and I split 3 years ago. I don't seem to have an interest in anyone else. My feeling for him have taken me by surprise as he is not my usual type but we got on really well and had some lovely dates and good laughs when we were seeing each other.

    So any advice that any of you have to try and move past this would be great.


Comments

  • #2
    Matteroffact
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 457 ✭✭Matteroffact


    If he wanted you he would not have broken up with you, no matter what. Then when you both got together again he would have been telling you how he missed you and wanted to get back with you. If he has not contacted you for 2 weeks then forget it. Sorry OP, not looking good.


  • #3
    sjbc_84
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6 ✭sjbc_84


    I think you are missing the point Matteroffact. We are still in contact via the odd text and on Facebook. We have remained friends.

    I have accepted that things may be over between us and I'm moving on, but the feelings I developed for him over a short period of time caught me by surprise.


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