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break up - how to deal with it

  • 20-07-2014 4:25pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,
    Going unreg for this, I am in a long distance relationship with a foreign woman, i was planning to moving to her city in a few weeks time to work and be closer to her.

    We have met a few times and got on great, when we were together it was the best time we both had, we totally enjoyed each others company etc

    We basically have a relationship on skype, every minute we had we were on skype talking, when she wake's up she turn on skype and talk to me, when i wake up i turn on skype and talk to her, when we go to bed we be on skype with each other and fall asleep etc..

    We had a disagreement on Friday and we saw each other to bed that night, i left her a message on skype when i went to bed and when i woke up, we had a disagreement and she deleted me from skype, and social medial sites.

    I have being in contact with her and sent her a few txt messages and spoken to her on the phone, i can't get my head around it that this is finished, that she doesn't want anything to do with me, she told me not to come to her city etc.

    Help ... i feel like a headless chicken, i love her and my head is wreck, i feel like crying but i can't, i don't know what to do ... i just a empty shell at the moment, the last time this happen to me i had this one friend who helped me thought it, but i don't have anybody ... i don't get on with my family and i don't have any close friends friends like, i have friends but not friends friends that i consider close.

    Help as i desperate and don't want to feel like this


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  • #2
    desbrook
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭desbrook


    Really sorry for your situation . It may be of little consolation but we have all been there and it hurts - it hurts dam hard . From the sounds of it trying to contact her will not improve anything for you or any chance of reconcilliation .

    You don't say what the two "disagrreements" were that led to this break up . Its difficult to know if there's anyway back for you both without knowing the nature of them . However the fact that she (a) cut all contact and (b) told you explicitely not to come to her city means (a) she is serious and (b) you need to respect her wishes .

    In short you are better to tell yourself it's over and concentrate on making your life here .


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