I hate 95% of my relatives

Hollister11

I hate the majority of my relatives. They are the biggest group of bregrudiging b*****ds I have ever met. This is not my family eg brothers parents. I love then to bits. This is my cousins,aunts/uncles.

For years the have excluded us from their "clique" always doing stuff never inviting us. For exameple last summer their was a BBQ like, which we were not invited too - the next week we met are aunt in the supermarket and she started talking about how great it was, and that everyone was their. Eh, hello ? We weren't invited and you basically telling is we weren't wanted.

They have stopped calling down to us and when we ask them to come down, the response is "we can't come down because if the dogs". Are dogs are very protective and bark like mad when people arrive at the house - it's not an issue we just put them in the front room until they go. It has been like this when we had other pets always the sane excuse - I can't come down because if the cats/rabbits ect.

My cousins have turned in to total p***ks. I use to hang out with them often enough and be able to have great conversations and laugh and now I can't stand them. At family gatherings I just sit with brothers or parents because I can't stand the rest of them and have much more craic with my immediate family.

I have an aunt who is so two faced. Say I came into money - she would be my "best" friend always talking to me, being nice trying to get cash out of me. If I was rich I would tell her where to go. I despise her the most.

I would be quite happy if I spent the rest if my life with out seeing these people again. When we have are family gatherings I'm just thinking "I want to be home with my family that I care about or our with my friends" we have great laughs every night and my dad is a hilarious.

Anyone in a similar situation ?

freshpopcorn

Hollister11 wrote: »

I hate the majority of my relatives. They are the biggest group of bregrudiging b*****ds I have ever met. This is not my family eg brothers parents. I love then to bits. This is my cousins,aunts/uncles.

For years the have excluded us from their "clique" always doing stuff never inviting us. For exameple last summer their was a BBQ like, which we were not invited too - the next week we met are aunt in the supermarket and she started talking about how great it was, and that everyone was their. Eh, hello ? We weren't invited and you basically telling is we weren't wanted.

They have stopped calling down to us and when we ask them to come down, the response is "we can't come down because if the dogs". Are dogs are very protective and bark like mad when people arrive at the house - it's not an issue we just put them in the front room until they go. It has been like this when we had other pets always the sane excuse - I can't come down because if the cats/rabbits ect.

My cousins have turned in to total p***ks. I use to hang out with them often enough and be able to have great conversations and laugh and now I can't stand them. At family gatherings I just sit with brothers or parents because I can't stand the rest of them and have much more craic with my immediate family.

I have an aunt who is so two faced. Say I came into money - she would be my "best" friend always talking to me, being nice trying to get cash out of me. If I was rich I would tell her where to go. I despise her the most.

I would be quite happy if I spent the rest if my life with out seeing these people again. When we have are family gatherings I'm just thinking "I want to be home with my family that I care about or our with my friends" we have great laughs every night and my dad is a hilarious.

Anyone in a similar situation ?

Well for starters maybe your hate rubs off on them.
Maybe they don't feel close enoughnt

Oink

How do your parents feel about the wholf thing? Have you talked to them?

Taltos

OP - this is now your 3rd thread in 2 weeks.
Per our charter posters are asked not to start threads in quick succession, it's not fair on others seeking advice or on posters who come here to help. If there are so many issues it could be that you require more assistance than folk here should be providing, it may be worthwhile finding someone to talk to - a friend or a counsellor.

You only need to start one thread - starting numerous threads over a short period of time will be considered attention whoring and they will be closed.

I have closed this and any of your other threads that are still open but I am going to ask you now to please take some time before you start another thread here.