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A lost love?

  • 15-07-2014 10:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all,

    I'm looking for you're opinions/advice regarding my self created dilemma. 3 months ago I met an amazing girl and our first date couldn't have gone any better. The next 2 months, every date the nerves butterfly's was such a rush and I couldn't be happier.

    Last month she left to go to N.Y. for the summer and was already looking forward to another date with her, with the possibility id take the chance of asking her to be my girlfriend... This is where the story turns...Last weekend my friend and I ended up at a house party and I kissed a girl, my gut feeling was no but of course I kissed her. Subsequently it turns out the girl I kissed is a friend of the girl iv been dating...

    I'm guessing friends being friends will catch up and talk about the summer and holidays etc.
    Do you think that when/if I come up in the topic of conversation ill have ruined any chance of another date with this girl?

    Thanks in advance


Comments

  • #2
    Ande1975
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 446 ✭✭Ande1975


    Well it depends on how you left things with her before she went to NY.
    I presume there was no commitment made so therefore you haven't cheated.
    She is going to find out that you kissed her friend so its up to her if she is ok with that or not. Some people are irrational about things like that, others aren't.
    So I guess the best thing you can do is meet her when she's back from NY, tell her that you unknowingly kissed her friend but that its her you really want. Its up to her then.


  • #3
    Lou.m
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,532 ✭✭✭Lou.m


    Who knows. She has been away for a while and who knows what went on in NY.

    She probably had a few things happen romantically too.

    Honestly she has been away who knows where things are. Play it by ear.


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