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Sex Life

  • 15-07-2014 5:40pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    I am with my husband 4 years, we are married 2 years. We have sex about once a week sometimes just every other week. We have a small child. I am just wondering is this normal for a couple who have been together this amount of time? When we do have sex it's great. My husband complains of being too tired to have sex more regularly. I could have it every day if I was able too. I understand life does get in the way but just wondering is it like this for every other couple? I feel a bit bored :/


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭marie12


    This sounds regular and frequent to me, everyone is different, what works for you?
    I have wrecked my head at times wondering what the'norm' is. Are you initiating or leaving it to him, are your advances rejected? There are many factors to it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭desbrook


    There's is only one correct frequency of sex for a couple and thats's one they both find acceptable . Therefore I'm not giving you a "magic number" it would be pointless . Clearly the two keywords are "both" and "acceptable" .

    It isn't clear from your OP whether this has always been an issue for you guys or if your sex drive has suddenly increased and his decreased or a combination of both ? This is key to solution (not to blame!!)

    Whichever is the case you have a problem . That can't be denied - and worringly when you say you are bored.


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