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TameImpala22

Ok at the end of May I met this girl at my neighbors party. Well she is my neighbors little sister and we're both the same age. So she introduced her self to me first and we connected right off the back, i knew me and her could of had something special. But an immediate red flag was before she saw me she was on facetime with her boyfriend. But I could tell I caught her eye right off the back and she hung up right in her boyfriend's face to talk to me. So at the party we spent the whole time together getting to know each other and exchanged numbers. To do a background check I asked her family if she had a boyfriend and they said yes. I asked her she said no he is just a friend. So for the next few weeks we had a very intimate relationship. Everything was going goood until she started to cancel our dates not answering my calls. So I kind of overreacted over the phone and we got into a big fight, but everything got clear and we were good. Now she mentioned that she would be going out of town to see her mom. I left her alone didn't text her for a couple of days, comes to find out when I was looking at my Facebook feed I see that she's all cuddled up with her so called "friend" in Vegas. And the status made it clear that they've been together for a while. So i really tripped out and sent a hateful message on Facebook, but apologized. I still haven't heard an explanation of what's going on. And out of the blue she's blocked me on Facebook. Like im moving but I want things clear.

Penny Tration

It couldn't be clearer, mate. She's with someone else, and cheated with you. Time to forget her. You'll do better.

368100

If it's anything like my experiences which it does sound like, you were a bit of excitement/distraction but it's run it's course. The fact that she's blocked you means it's very unlikely that you'll get your explanation.

Best thing you can do is hold your head up and move on. All the best.

TameImpala22

green_screen wrote: »

It couldn't be clearer, mate. She's with someone else, and cheated with you. Time to forget her. You'll do better.

Thank you man for the motivation!! I wil absolutely do better.

TameImpala22

368100 wrote: »

If it's anything like my experiences which it does sound like, you were a bit of excitement/distraction but it's run it's course. The fact that she's blocked you means it's very unlikely that you'll get your explanation.

Best thing you can do is hold your head up and move on. All the best.

You're absolutely right I need to move on and find other fish in the sea.

Penny Tration

TameImpala22 wrote: »

Thank you man for the motivation!! I wil absolutely do better.

Woman :pac:

Merkin

Not being funny, but you had your suspicions that she had a boyfriend, these were confirmed, and you went ahead anyway. What did you expect? You were her bit on the side for as long as it suited her and now she's had enough. Choose more wisely next time. Her poor boyfriend is the one I feel sorry for.

Lou.m

TameImpala22 wrote: »

Ok at the end of May I met this girl at my neighbors party. Well she is my neighbors little sister and we're both the same age. So she introduced her self to me first and we connected right off the back, i knew me and her could of had something special. But an immediate red flag was before she saw me she was on facetime with her boyfriend. But I could tell I caught her eye right off the back and she hung up right in her boyfriend's face to talk to me. So at the party we spent the whole time together getting to know each other and exchanged numbers. To do a background check I asked her family if she had a boyfriend and they said yes. I asked her she said no he is just a friend. So for the next few weeks we had a very intimate relationship. Everything was going goood until she started to cancel our dates not answering my calls. So I kind of overreacted over the phone and we got into a big fight, but everything got clear and we were good. Now she mentioned that she would be going out of town to see her mom. I left her alone didn't text her for a couple of days, comes to find out when I was looking at my Facebook feed I see that she's all cuddled up with her so called "friend" in Vegas. And the status made it clear that they've been together for a while. So i really tripped out and sent a hateful message on Facebook, but apologized. I still haven't heard an explanation of what's going on. And out of the blue she's blocked me on Facebook. Like im moving but I want things clear.

I don't know what facetime is but she is a worthless person and whatever she thinks of you YOU should not think of her at all.

Trust me she is nothing.

Honestly the hateful message thing is bad form on your part. No matter what a person does to you ...you are responsible for your own actions. It is understandable but not justifiable.

Beside you have better things to do with your time ...go out enjoy yourself ..you are FREE

Men and women like this are nothing. Worthless ...they will always let you down and never be there for you. They have no sense of value and common decency. She in simple terms ...is a bitch. Pity her. She is stuck being who she is a self centered shallow nasty person with no magic or innocence or joy. She is DEEPLY ugly. You will see this soon.

She is stupid and lack perspective. She is souless.

Pity the boyfriend too! He knows nothing I presume. She will eventually **** up her life and blame everyone else. And I bet people around her are starting to realize.

She had a boyfriend and cheated with you. That is what she did. It must be painful. I am sorry. But you have to be the better person.

Now don't give her another thought. Go out have fun enjoy the summer.

You will meet lots of lovely sweet kind girls ..especially in this weather

Also yes avoid people who are in relationships. Some people are liars. But I have always made it a rule never to get involved at all with people who are not completely available to me.

cactuspaw

tut, look, im pretty sure she will do the same again to that guy or he has done it to her. just let her go and make her own mess and step away. take it as a lesson in life.

CaraMay

The op knew she was involved but choose to go ahead anyway. What did you expect?

eviltwin

You're not exactly a victim here OP. You knew she was in a relationship but went for it anyway. You went in with your eyes opened, you weren't decieved. It rarely ends well when you get involved with someone who is attached, stick to single women in future.