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Difficult situation

  • 03-07-2014 4:03pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    So I broke up with my BF a little while ago. It was completely amicable and neither of us wanted to do it. Our relationship thus far has been largely long distance and would continue to be for at least 2 more years if we were to stay together.
    Before we broke up I worried that I didn't love him enough, that I'd find it hard to make a home in my new city without him and that there might be other people out there better (it's both of our first serious relationships).

    But now I think I've made the wrong decision. After we broke up I moved home for the summer and we basically acted like we were still going out because it just seemed stupid not to after waiting so long. But I'm living at home so we could only hand out on weekends and my parents make it really difficult so eventually I just got to sad. I felt there was no point having such a good time together and pissing off my parents just for it all to end. But during that time I think I realised how much I do love him, and that though he's obviously not perfect, no one is, and I can't imagine meeting anyone who meshes so well with me. Certainly not someone who cares so deeply for me.

    So anyway, I'm thinking of suggesting we make another go of it. Obviously we'd need to sit down and make a game plan about the "distance". I didn't find being apart hard last time but I want to live with him so badly now. But mainly I'm afraid of how this summer will go. I'm leaving mid-august so there's not that long left but when I dedicate my weekends to him to I have no time to see friends and my parents start accusing me of "using the house as a hotel". It wouldn't be feasible for me to move out alone and he lives with four other people so I doubt they'd go for it.

    Ugh. The whole thing is a bit of a mess. I'm young(ish) at 24 so I know I can find someone else but I don't really want someone else. Why would I when I'm so happy with him?


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  • #2
    strobe
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,872 ✭✭✭strobe


    Kinda sounds like you just miss someone (not necessarily him, but he's a ready made one of those someones) being mad about you and making you feel wanted... What do you think?


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