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  • 28-06-2014 8:52pm
    #1
    ann100
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 93 ✭✭


    Then recently I met him twice and I got with him both nights and also he said he was thinking of asking me to a party. Is he just using me?? I think he too scared to get in a relationship.


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  • #2
    Merkin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,230 ✭✭✭Merkin


    He has explicitly told you that he doesn't want a relationship with you but is clearly happy enough to use you for sex if it's on offer. You obviously want more and he doesn't so I'd just cut contact to avoid getting hurt even more.


  • #3
    Tokyo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,656 ✭✭✭✭Tokyo


    ann100 wrote: »
    Is he just using me?? I think he too scared to get in a relationship. as we are not properly together

    Yes he is, and no, he's not scared to get into a relationship. Right now you are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too - he gets your company when he wants without having to actually make any commitment to you whatsoever. Find someone else who is ready yo commit to you and treat you better than your ex has.


  • #4
    Alf. A. Male
    Closed Accounts Posts: 740 ✭✭✭Alf. A. Male


    The very definition of stringing you along. You seem to want better,go and find it for yourself.


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